#bimbo thoughts

goon and scroll for hours

fall asleep

wake up

open tumblr

repeat

I was gonna write a post about how I don't just want to be a sex toy, I want to be a fidget toy too. Like absolutely you can use me for sex, but you can also use me to get you a drink, or like a stress ball. Then I started thinking about how my dominant does this, and I thought of something I think you all might like.

I just stumbled on an article that basically summarizes a recent metaanalysis of studies, showing that feelings of shame (religousness) are much bigger predictors of an unhealthy relationship with porn than literally anything else, including how much porn you consume.

In other words, bimbos, bimbolovers, sluts and whores, and whoever this post may reach, - I can't stress this enough - you're not anyhow worse for jacking off to your kink, for having self-time sessions where you focus on your pleasure and read and watch depraved shit. It doesn't make you a worse person, it doesn't make you a pervert (unless you want that, lol), it doesn't cast any moral judgment on you.

You're not a bad person for all of your sexual preferences, essentially. We're all raised in religious or post-religious cultures that do not take kindly to overt displays of sexuality. Let yourself be a slut, even if it's just for yourself, in the privacy of your own home.

And if you do have some sort of problem with overusing porn, it's not anyhow more mythical than a problem with... video games or watching netflix or something. Be kind to yourself, accept that this is something you do for some reason. Don't shame yourself, don't be angry at yourself - give yourself love and acceptance, that will make it all the easier to either step away or reframe your relationship to the media you consume

sincerly