#bimama

Halloween 2018 at home. Our neighborhood takes this holiday quite seriously. I hope you enjoy these photos.

Um.... I identify as bisexual. Also as pansexual and queer. Just sayin' because today is National Coming Out Day!

It's I-dentity not YOU-dentity. Respect people's right to self-define. Our choice of label(s) is deeply personal. 

It made my day (and week) that the fabulous out bi actress Sara Ramirez posted this on Facebook. 

So... last night I had the pleasure of meeting & spending time with Meredith Talusan (Executive Editor of Conde Nast's @them, and author of a forthcoming memoir, Fairest) who gave a thoughtful & challenging (in all the best ways) speech at a Harvard Gender & Sexuality Caucus dinner. Plus, Meredith called me her new BFF. I'm in, & look forward to more convos & collaborations. #meredithtalusan #lgbtq #bimama

"Labels should not be boxes into which we feel we much squeeze ourselves, but rather tools with which to communicate and begin conversations."#bitwitter #bimama #bicommunity #bipride #bisexuals #lgbtq #queersoftwitter #queer #bivisibility #queercampus #lgbtcampus #lgbtspeaker

Today was a perfect day. I am at Northern Illinois University, where I spoke to counseling and health service staff; spoke about bisexuality from a transnational perspective to a group of amazing students in a Women & Gender Studies class; had lunch and an interesting discussion about sustainable activism with some amazing student leaders; and spoke about "The Changing Landscape of Identity" in a graduate higher ed class. And somewhere between all this, I participated in a Coming Out of the Shadows march in support of undocumented students. I am completely and utterly exhausted, and feeling very fulfilled. #bispeaker #lgbtspeaker #lgbtq #bisexual #bimama #niugsrc #outoftheshadows

Question: "Since the B in LGBT stands for "bisexual," doesn't that imply that there are only 2 genders?" Perfect response: "Does bilingual mean that there are only 2 languages?"