#bee rants

i love you plus size femmes who feel like their body pushes them out of feminine spaces.

i love you femmes with weird genders.

i love you jewish femmes.

i love you black femmes.

i love you femmes of colour.

i love you femmes who don't shave.

i love you femmes who like indulging in masculinity.

i love you femmes that experience discomfort around their breasts and vaginas.

i love you asexual femmes.

i love you autistic femmes.

i love you femmes who constantly have to defend your identity (we are right beside you <3)

i love you single femmes who feel as if their femme identity is only valid as being 'queer enough' when with a butch.

i love you femmes who have 'masculine' personalities.

i love you alternative femmes.

It helps me and many others to tag your ships for these reasons. You never know what someone's triggers are, that's why tagging is important.

First off, I’m very sorry you have experienced that. I also have. It sucks and I hope you’re healing and your abuser is getting what they deserve.

But to the meat of the matter - i post about this ship all the fucking time. I tag it correctly ALL THE FUCKING TIME. Probably in the upwards of thousands of posts at this point!

so the fact that I forgot once? I mislabeled ONE fucking post and you all leap at me like I’ve killed someone? Fuck the fucking fuck off.

Also you don’t own a character tag. No one fucking does. NO ONE. So don’t get all ‘we go here to not see this’ what the fuck? Its an open forum????? What about whatever Jon ship you like that others don’t??? What if you mistag it? Mistakes don’t fucking happen? All fandoms have to be perfect all the fucking time or they’re burned at the stakes?

Yeah, you never know someone’s triggers - and that applies to you and the outside world too. You dont know me. you don’t know what i’ve been through either. So get off y’all’s little entitled high horse and go touch some goddamn grass. There are bigger problems in the world than a goddamn mistag and a silly little post about a comic book from two years ago!!!

Speaking of comics - theres DECADES OF CANON MATERIAL. Comics canon is literally a choose your own fucking adventure!!!! You all chose the ‘aged up’ jon stories!!!! Great, happy for you!! I chose the 2016 Superman/Teen Titans/animated Super Sons movie/DCeased (also written by your shitty fave tom taylor) for myself!!!! Oh my god!!!! Do you know how many times a Robin Dick Grayson has and hasn’t had pants as an 8 year old in canon??? Go freak out about that, then!!!

For being Superfam fans, you have all learned nothing from them and they’d hate you.

Its gone from Iron lung, to the markiverse, to hadetown, to project hail mary-

Its kinda all 4 at once rn