hello, want to send love to people who cannot do even low effort/energy hobbies today.
Who spending today listening to podcast or scrolling tumblr or watching movies.
Who can't watch/listen to new media because too exhausting, instead need only simple or familiar stories.
Who doing these things sitting or lying in bed, in supportive/adaptive chairs, or supported by pillows and adaptive equipment to remain sitting.
And also to people who won't see this because scrolling tumblr too bright or too overstimulating or too exhausting. If you do see this on a different day, you're not forgotten.
It doesn't matter if other people see your hobbies as low effort, and can't imagine why you can't do them today. Your body is not theirs. You're the one living in it, you know what's achievable for you today.
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Sometimes being disabled means you can't go to college, can't get a job, have to live with your parents and that's ok. For a lot of us it means not being able to go outside most days, not being able to get up or move at all. It can mean needing someone to wash us or feed us or help us with the bathroom and that is ok. It doesn't mean that we're less than or that we aren't worth anything.
And it's valid for us to be mad about it. Even if we can overcome some of these things with accomodations we're allowed to be mad that we're in this situation, and wish that we weren't disabled because I sure as hell hate this shit.
possibly a long shot but if anybody on the homebound / bedridden / bed-resting spectra who's connected to butch/femme identity / community / experience would like to be interviewed by or otherwise collaborate with me on a submission to Sinister Wisdom's call for upcoming Butch/Femme Renaissance issue (link) please send me an ask / dm / reply!
& if not folks should still totally consider sending something in❣️ submission deadline is december 31st 2025 (anybody interested in working together ideally we'd get started before or by dec 5th)
Husband sends a few photos from his current work trip to London. I always have a go at him for rushing home and not spending enough time "pissing about" down there as I would blatantly be doing.
HE'S AT THE SHERLOCK HOLMES MUSEUM ON BLOODY BAKER STREET!!!!!!!!!!!
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|| Warnings; short drabble, sick reader, mention of hospital, overly cautious caitlyn, reader doesn't like hospitals, brief hints at sex between the lines, mentions of throw up
|| Summary; when reader's sick one morning, it becomes Caitlyn's turn to take care of her. Instead of the other way around.
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Started; December 25th
Finished; Decmeber 26th
HurtCember2024; Day 23, Bed-Bound
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"You are not to get out of bed," any other day of the week, that British voice would have been music to your ears. Today, it was the cause of your woes. You'd woken up sick. The perfect way to start a day, isn't it? Not. Especially with your overly cautious girlfriend hovering over you. Her eyes hardly leaving you for even a moment. If you didn't love her as much as you did, you might have seen it as insufferable.
"Cait-" you'd started to say, only for her to raise her hand in a silencing gesture. Eyes narrowed.
"No, absolutely not. Whatever you are about to say, save it. This is not a debate," normally Caitlyn wasn't one to be firm with you. But that soft side went out the window whenever your health got involved. To her, you were something to protect. So alas, she had you bed-bound. And not the fun kind...
"Seriously-? But-" she cut you off again with a hard glare. Yeah, this was not one you were getting out of. Damn it.
"I already called in to your work and got the next few days off for you. Most recoveries only take a couple of days, hopefully yours is the same. If it is not, we may need to consider taking you to the-" this time it was your turn to cut her off.
"You better not say hospital."
"Hospital," she finished with a smirk. Knowing full well that you were not a fan of them. You groaned and turned over onto your back away from her," oh stop pouting. You're not five."
Caitlyn sat herself on the edge of the bed. Her hand reaching over to feel your forehead, you'd gotten warmer since the last time she checked you. At least you hadn't thrown up any time recently... Caitlyn knew she would have to keep an eye on you. Normally it was you taking care of her, now she had the chance to do the same for you. She knew you were strong, but even the strongest needed someone to lean on. Who better than her? Caitlyn just hoped you'd agree with that.
shout out to all the disabled people who are mostly housebound and rarely leave home. shout out to all the disabled people who are completely housebound and haven't left your home in days/weeks/months/years. shout out to all the bedbound disabled people and those who don't have the supports to go outside or leave their spaces.
I love you. You are deserving of love and friendship and whatever else you need to be happy and fulfilled and do the things you want to do in life. Don't let anyone ever tell you otherwise.
