Judgement? Nah, stupidity
People with tattoos and some piercings, letâs talk about them a little
First of all, whatâs wrong in getting them on your body? Why do some people judge this kind of people without even knowing the story behind them? They couldâve get them maybe because they didnât like the way they looked before, maybe they have a story for âcoloringâ some of their body parts or maybe they just wanted to. Whatâs so wow when you see a 16 year old boy/ girl with a pretty quote tattoo on his/her arm, shoulder, thighs, back, legs, etc, or a girl whoâs got belly-button, nose, lip, snake bites, angel bites, tongue, (etc) piercing at the age of 15-16? It isnât that obvious, and it really looks good. These donât matter if sheâs a kind-hearted, open-minded person. Or when we see a woman with her head half shaved we immediately start to judge her like âOh my, what do your kids say about you looking like this?â or worse... Is their god damn body, let them do whatever they want to if that makes them happy.. Some metal pieces donât change yourself into a whore or jerk, some metal pieces wonât make the difference between what you were and what you are now, after you get them. Your attitude, personality, and your mind do. YOURSELF DOES, THE SOUL YOU HAVE DOES. *sigh*
The majority of people may think that this category of teens or matures are Satanists, they get judged (at least, in my country they unfortunately are and those who make âgipsy songsâ are way TOO promoted and supported by the others, yeah, weâve got a society problem here...) by the way some of the boys let their hair longer, about the metal âchainsâ they wear on their jeans or jacket, but these judging people donât know how sensitive they could really be. Rock music is a branch of feelings, expressed by its intensity, louder or softer. If you donât like their type, donât get involved in this kind of groups, bands, or donât make any friends like this, even if theyâre cooler than you, donât force it just because you wanna get as famous as they are. Rockers are huge-hearted, theyâre amazing and their music is really beautiful. Plus that, I donât think they would need some garbages in their life, like some people are..
Rap music has a strong message to be understood by its listeners (as rock as well), a life, love, disappointment, fear or life battles some people got or still get through, feelings expressed in lyrics written down on paper.
Rappers are such nice people, owning a lot of stories to tell others and a huge heart, but they get judged by their looks?! AGAIN? WHY do we judge a book by its cover before we get to read it?? Why wouldnât we let ourselves discover more? Why we, or our parents think that each of the rappers are drugged and they canât stop being on drugs? Wrong, they totally could if they would try! As long as they take it moderately is fine. Their life, their needs and wishes.
(As a random thought, I would really like to have a gay as friend, I think it could be a nice idea :) or a lesbian, why not? Few of my loverâs friends are homosexual and theyâre such sweet people.)
People started to judge them more often... I donât understand why. Like us, they are human beings, too. And I think that they should stop this because love is love. Love has no age (Ok, we wonât pick a 5 year old girl to be together with a 30 year old man, of course, but I was thinking about the age difference, strictly. 6 years difference between you and your partner is more than good), love has no gender. (girl-girl, boy-boy, girl-boy -thatâs the best, but letâs think like open minded people) Love has no way to be expressed. You can express your love to a person just by simply hugging her unexpectedly or way way more ways (: And I bet if those who judge were in their places, being judged, would collapse. So, they pretty are strong human beings, theyâve got a heart, too, theyâve got a head, theyâve got eyes, theyâve got noses, tongues, legs, stomachs and all these features a HUMAN has. Let them live and donât get involved in what you say itâs âillâ or what you donât like to heart about.
As a conclusion, Iâd like to say that some of us better keep their mouth shut when they donât know how a person truly is, and have to stop judging. Is stupid. Alright, when they get to know that person better day by day and see the way she really is, isnât necessary to like her way of being, of course, they can express their thoughts about how those people are, they might not like them, itâs something normal to make selection between the people you go out with and youâre surrounded by and yourself. Weâre not forced to like them, but as long as they havenât done anything bad to us, something that makes us suffer, itâs stupid to judge, to bully them reasonless.
