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els is so funny, keeping lists in her diary of all the sexual things she tries with zev, organized by what she definitely likes, what she feels neutral towards, and what she definitely doesn't like, along with similar lists for zev. all so she can make sure they both have the best time possible.
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Normalize not shaming autistic people for getting upset over something you view as "little". I literally just lost my favorite charger and I am pissed. I admittedly had a meltdown. That is my favorite damn charger. It works amazing, it's long but not too long. It's perfect. I am also tired which doesn't help in the emotional department. So yeah. I'm gonna have a meltdown over a charger. The situation to me even loosing it in the first place is bullshit. But ofc, there is no understanding from my family. I'm not even asking for validation. I understand my feelings are overboard. But I don't know how to not get that upset over a charger and just telling to "stop acting like that. It's just a charger" doesn't help at all. Can there be some understanding for why I may be feeling very upset? Please? Anyway, moral of the story, normalize autistic people having meltdowns over things you view as little and don't tell them to "just stop acting like that." You're not helping
Some people seem to find it hard to comprehend that you don't need to understand and empathise with someone's lifestyle/choices/situation in order to accept and respect it. There are always going to be people who's situation is different from yours, and who you can never understand. And you don't need to understand. But unless their life choices are legitimately harming someone, they are still due your basic respect.
The autistic experience
I often get anxious over whether I'm actually autistic or not even with the diagnosis... but then shit like this happens!
I spent my last week eating only boiled potatoes with yogurt. Like 20 potatoes a day. Nothing else tastes as good. It's 100% not healthy but far better than some other food obsessions I got going lately.
Hope it goes away soon, but for now, I enjoy myself some more
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What to do if someone is having a sensory meltdown:
As an autistic person who has regular sensory meltdowns, I've noticed that loved ones and people who are around you at the time are often unsure what to do. Since meltdowns are a common part of the autistic experience and, sadly, they don't always wait until you're alone, I thought I would make a post with a few tips on dos and don'ts if you are around an autistic person who's having a meltdown.
1. The first DO is to ask the autistic person themselves what they would like you to do. The best way to handle a meltdown varies a bit from person to person, so it's best to ask the individual what they would like you to do. Of course, this only works if you are a friend/family member of the autistic person. Make sure to ask when they are not currently having a meltdown, as at that point they won't be able to tell you.
2. DON'T try to talk to the person having the meltdown. Especially don't ask them questions. They probably won't be able to answer you, and it will likely make their overstimulation worse.
3. If in doubt, DON'T touch them. This varies a bit from perdon to person. Some people apreciate firm touch from a trusted person when they are having a meltdown. For others, though, touch can really make their overstimulation worse. So unless you've previously established that the person would want it, stay on the safe side and don't touch them.
4. If you are with a friend/family member and you see that they're heading towards a meltdown, DO get them away from the overstimulation if possible. When someone is on the brink of a meltdown, they often can't think clearly enough to get themselves out of the situation. Guide them to a quieter, less crowded etc area and give them some time to calm down. Sitting quietly and giving them plently of personal space if probably yhe best thing. Just to note (and hopefully this goes without saying), but if you are a stranger you shouldn't do this.
These are all the tips I can think of right now. Does anyone else have something they would add?
relistening to rogue protocol while i draw and the bit where Gerth and Wilkin are discussing the job and MB is just tearing them apart is so funny. the careful explanations clearly backed by experience followed by 'but what do i know' every 5 seconds. it wants to do security so bad
you know when they say "your room is a reflection of your soul"? well i really really agree with that. i really do. shows off
