#ask samy

I’m glad I could help! And no problem, you guys can always ask me anything you want I seriously have no shame lol. Also I don’t let anyone I know in real life follow me on tumblr for that very reason. XD. But actually, I’m having that problem right now. Like yea, I lost 60 pounds in 5 fricken months but that means that there’s a lot of flabby skin left. Like there are some areas which still I still feel a bit self concious about but I know that’s all it is. I’ve joined a gym now and I’m working on toning up, I’ve found some workouts I’m going to be trying to make that happen fast. So yea, there’s a chance of it happening, but if you can do the whole working out thing as part of your weight loss journey than it won’t be as big of an issue. And even though I feel a little flabby in places I still feel really good about myself, and I’m healthy. 

Thanks my love!

10: Do you like your phone?

For the most part but I want to upgrade it real bad

20: When did you last talk to the last person you shared a kiss with?

This morning when we kissed, actually, as I was leaving for work. This is what i needed a distraction from, stupid questions. 

30: Think to the last person you kissed, have you ever kissed them on a couch?

WOW REALLY. Yes, last night while I was there, and it was great and now I’m all confused again

40: Have you ever cried over a text?

Oh yea. 

50: Top 3 web-pages?

Tumblr, Facebook, and YouTube probably

60: When’s the next time you will give someone a BIG hug?

Ummm maybe sometime this weekend if I see that person I mentioned above that I was trying real hard not to think about.

70: How many windows are open on your computer?

Only 4 right now that’s low for me. 

80: Have you ever fallen asleep in someones arms?

Yes, again, last night. Stupid questions. This was a terrible idea for a distraction

90: Have you ever trusted someone too much?

AHHHH. 

100: Who was the last person that you pinky promise?

Uhhhhhm, I honestly don’t know. Probably my ex, which is also someone I didn’t want to think about.

Welp. Now it’s worse. It’s not your fault though nonnymoose I know you were only trying to help, so I still love you!

I do trust him but at the same time I’m very much “actions are louder than words”.  I understand needing space sometimes but I think it was the way he went about it, and we both have baggage and I get that. I think I just need to talk to him, but I don’t wanna do it over text because that annoys the hell out of me, so I just need to see him again, and I’m sure it will happen I just don’t know when and that’s what’s driving me crazy right now. 

Thanks for letting me vent about it though! 

Oh we are way past that. So we’ve been seeing each other for like a month and a half now. Both of us are scared of like being in a relationship but we are sort of taking things slow and working towards that. But he also lives 45 minutes away. I don’t mind driving or anything it’s just kinda far. Also he has an 18 month old son and his ex is totally crazy. So like, yea, taking things slowly. But then this week he all of the sudden like didn’t wanna hang out, even when I told him that I wanted to talk to him about some stuff. And now I’m all freaked out and being crazy, and Im trying not to but it’s hard. I told him it seems like his feelings changed and he told me they didn’t but he’s still being like, distant and whatever. 

But so for Christmas I gave him this nice Packer jersey that I had that like still had the tags on it, and I also got us these corny ass necklaces. Like the ones that are two halves of a heart, except one half is r2d2 and the other half is threepio because the thing we first starting talking about is Star Wars so it’s kind of our thing. And he wears the necklace and the jersey all the time. Like after I got the jersey for him he wore it around his apartment like 5 days in a row after work, and he really liked it. And he wears the necklace like everyday. So today we were snapchatting and he was wearing the jersey and the necklace, so like that made me feel better but I’m still confused because I really like him, but I’m still really scared, and I don’t want to distance myself too much and him just like, lose interest or forget about me, but I don’t want to like overwhelm him either and have him just get annoyed with me and then break it off ya know? 

On a totally unrelated note I have a doctor appointment Monday morning and I’ll be talking to her about my anxiety levels. 

Well, if she has a bf I would hold off, you don’t want to like totally confuse her or catch her off guard. I think you should absolutely figure out your own feelings first as well. Adding someone into that just makes it a lot more complicated. And I don’t think she’s being an asshole or trying to make you feel like she doesn’t need you or want you, but if she just moved and has new friends it’s easy to get caught up in that excitement. 

My best friend and I have been friends since high school, and we also like to make out with each other when we’re drunk. We both think the other is attractive but neither of us are interested in actually like dating a girl, but girls are still pretty and I’m not ashamed to admit I have woman crushes. Her and I have actually gone through two really big fights where we didn’t talk for like up to an entire year, and we are still best friends despite that. It sucked at the time but we made up and I know she will always be there for me. You and your best friend may drift apart and there may be times when you don’t talk a lot but if you are really best friends she will always still be there for you when you need her. 

And also if you are worried that she doesn’t need you or want you anymore, it never hurts to just talk to her about it. 

You’re so sweet! My day has been alright, I was pretty hungover but my best friend and her bf made me breakfast and talked to me about the boy problems. They didn’t really help me come to any decisions because they had differing opinions on what I should do but it was still nice to like vent about it and get an outside look on the situation. I’m still pretty confused about it, because I’m terrible at dating and all I want to do is like, go talk to him and I can’t which is part of the problem. Ugh. I definitely didn’t drink enough water though so thanks for reminding me!

I totally hear you. Boys and girls are all just so fricken cute and they are great people on top of it and it can be easy to get crushes. The thing is though, I think that you can have that, like little crushes here and there, doesn’t mean it would ever work out with them, doesn’t mean you love them, and it doesn’t mean you have to act on those feelings. I think there are people you like, and that’s all you’ll ever have with them, but it’s the ones you fall in love with that are special. And those little crushes are just that, and those people are just nice to look at and talk to sometimes. 

Well do you like him? I mean, if there’s mutual liking there then you should go for it and see what happens! Maybe his friends knows he likes you so they were making “jokes” to like, help him out. Guys are weird like that. Feel free to tell me more about it!