āKill your darlings.ā
This is a term for creatives that means that even though you may like some part(/scene/character) very, very much, you need to be able to make decisions for the betterment of the larger story.
It refers to being able to step back and see the whole project and make decisions for THAT instead of your personal feelings.
This is how creatives improve. This is how creatives in places of privilege (they get their projects on the big screen) stay humbleāfor lack of a better wordāand prioritize their story and audience, instead of their personal wants.
āFeedback isnāt a personal attack.ā
Another BIG, important lesson for creatives. The artistic process is dialogue and that dialogue includes feedback. Said feedback canāt and wonāt be nothing but praise. Not all feedback needs to nor ought to be taken seriously and enacted, but it still leads to improvementāespecially those who are in uninterrogated places of privilege and leaning on biases. It also includes being able to listen to others in the writing rooms!
Good artists understand THIS (both points), instead of being lauded as the most talented. Praise and the demand to have nothing but it creates stagnation, even deevolution, and a needy, immature creative that canāt handle what the artistic process involves, especially when theyāve āmade it big.ā These creatives throw public fits, attack people who āhateā on their creation even if theyāre ostensibly fans, and even insult such fans and send their fan base after them. āProofā that theyāre a good creative and deserve their place and whomeverās āhatingā on them is stupid and childish is that place in the industry.
Various creative classes do this with peer reviews, and some form of feedback day involving the whole class or groups.
James Cameron, who made a colonization white-savior fantasy that exotifies native/indigenous women (literally used a MINORās features without consent nor reimbursement, Qāorianka Kilcher), uses extant indigenous peoples/cultures as an easy cheat to making alien cultures (not real representation and using), hasnāt done anything with his vast amounts of wealth to actually help any of these peoples, could not try to step out of his whiteness and westernness to have truly āalienā soundtrack nor have bipoc co-creators (has token actors who took on a LOT), couldnāt even hire people of those peoples to be those aliens, and couldnāt interrogate or try to step out of his whiteness nor Christianity for his movies.
Vivziepop, who dismisses things sheās done in the pastāas an adult, hired a cowriter and VA whoās known for rape ājokesā and has been recently outed for blackface. Who does not, in fact, have real representation for the queer community nor sexual violence victims, hired a rape fetishist on the team and had them handle that character/dynamic, defended that employeeās position by lying about their own victim status and weaponizing victim status against those (many of them victims) speaking out against how wrong it was, sacrificing narrative and characterization for a gay relationship thatās abusive but victim blames the victim in it, uwu-ifying the abuser, platforms a surprising amount of sexual harassment (obviously in a way that enables it; itās a punch line), fetishizing incest/twincest (it included merch, and very obviously wasnāt just for a bit in the narrative), has no real BIPOC representation, sacrifices her female character LEADS for whatever the male characters are doing, only writes the same dynamics of main casts, and weaponizes her audience (fans) against āhaters.ā
That Marvel comic artist who canāt draw women and throws a fit whenever someone points it out.
Emerald Fennel, who made that āadaptionā (white woman fanfic) of Wuthering Heights.
Kojima, of MGS creation, who canāt let go of his racism, colorism, and misogyny, and gets too big on himself about making insane plots and plot twists.
Gooseworx and co, who canāt take true responsibility for racism and enablement of such (micro) aggressions that led to larger actions.
Bryke, of AtlA creation, who couldnāt diversify the writers room of their series revolving around eastern and Inuit cultures, and forced a romance between two of the cast (12/13 and 15/16) that did not fit well into the narrativeāand apparently also bullied a minor fan for not shipping it.
(Aaand thereās actually more about just these creatives.)