if you say âbut aros can still date!â about your aromantic blorbo, I need you to mean it. you canât make the ship just boring old romance.
your blorbo is still aromantic, so how would that color their relationships? how would that affect their daily life? do they struggle with feeling âgreedyâ because they canât love their partner back the way their partner loves them? do they have a hard time with an allo partner because on a fundamental level they donât quite understand what romance is like, even if theyâre experiencing it? on the positive side; what societal boundaries of romance do they cast aside or embrace? how do they navigate a romantic relationship differently than their peers? if itâs an aro4aro partnership, how is it unique? how much does being aro define their relationship vs. just their own personal quirks? is that even a line that can be drawn?
an aro relationship is different from an allo one. I promise, itâs so much more fun to explore what that means and the consequences of that than just âoh aros can date so theyâre dating in the same way any allos wouldâ.
