Feb 9, 2022
asexual culture is only reading YA romance novels because sex scenes in non-YA romance novels make you very uncomfortable
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asexual culture is only reading YA romance novels because sex scenes in non-YA romance novels make you very uncomfortable
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me: ugh I hate all the ace jokes about garlic bread and stuff, they feel so infantilizing
me after trying garlic bread for the first time: I suddenly understand everything
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Hi! I know I've had this blog for about two years now, but I'm finally getting around to making a DNI, because I am tired of having to deal with harmful people.
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My Aromantic Identity and Grief
I've identified as aromantic for about a year and a half, and up until recently, I've been quite content with my identity. But lately I've been more upset, less comforted by my aromanticism. I've been going through cycles of trying to suppress my aromanticism to no avail, only to be eventually come crashing back down to reality, because I know deep down that I will never be able to feel romance.
I've been a lot more involved in romantic stories lately, in books, in movies. And for the first time in my life, I was invested in them. I wanted them, and it hurt so much knowing that I can never have them. I know those stories aren't real. I know they aren't. But that isn't really any comfort to me.
It never really hit me, until recently, how much being aromantic has affected me. I never realized how much I wanted romance. I want that cute, storybook romance. I want to grow old with someone, I want that ideal family. I want that sweet, cutesy relationship. I want to feel romance, and every time I'm reminded that I will never be able to feel those things, my heart just shatters.
I know that romance isn't the most important thing. I know a person can be whole without romance. I know friendships are just as important as romance and I truly love all my friends. I don't feel incomplete without romance. But I feel so, so lost and alone.
I'm grieving the "loss" of romance in my life. I'm grieving the family that I can never have. I'm grieving the life that I'd always wanted, the life I'd dreamed of, the life I can never truly have. It finally hit me that almost everything I'd imagined in my life, I couldn't have. And I am still grieving for these things.
Self acceptance is a long, difficult journey. A few months ago, I thought I was there. Now I know that I'm nowhere near there, and I may never truly be there. But I have to keep trying.
I don't really know how to conclude this. I just needed a place to share the things I've been feeling lately. If you are struggling with your identity, aromantic or not, know that you aren't alone. It's ok to grieve the life you once thought you'd have. I can't offer you any advice, no matter how much I would love to. It's ok to struggle, but when you get knocked down, you have to get up and keep walking. Just take one step at a time, it's all you can do. You will make a wonderful life for yourself no matter what.
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