#aroace4aroace

I want someone who will love me to the maximum extent they can love someone. Who will choose me as much as I choose them. Who will text me first. Who will continue the conversations I initiate because they want to know about my day too. Who will reply by the next day if I text them too late.

The stupid thing is that I've already got someone like that, but I don't like them as much as they like me (for a multitude of reasons, first of all bc they're kinda too much older than me for it to feel completely normal ngl, and they are not aro so it feels like romance eugh).

And the one I currently actually want to do all these things does half of them, but somehow I'm still not satisfied. I want requited love for once, that's it. Starting to think I should resign to open myself up for romantic relationships but those give me the ick.

It's so hard to fall in love as an aro when your QPR pool is already tiny and then you find someone so compatible and so lovely that it hurts and you've been through this already and you're making all the same mistakes.

(☆) (More) Colorful pastel "this user's selfship is _4_!" userboxes.

pt. one

IMAGE ID. 3 rectangular flags with 11 stripes that are, in order: black, grey, greenish grey, light greenish grey, green, darker green, green, light greenish grey, greenish grey, grey, black. The first flag has an interlocking heart symbol. END OF ID.

୨୧ • aro4aro

︵︵︵︵︵︵★ ꒱ explanations :

Flag for aromantic individuals who prefer or prioritize dating other aromantics, or simply for aros who date other aros.

PT. aro4aro. explanations. Flag for aromantic individuals who prefer or prioritize dating other aromantics, or simply for aros who date other aros. END OF PT.

IMAGE ID. 3 rectangular flags with 11 stripes that are, in order: black, grey, lighter grey, white, purple, darker purple, purple, white, lighter grey, grey, black. The first flag has an interlocking heart symbol. END OF ID.

୨୧ • ace4ace

︵︵︵︵︵︵★ ꒱ explanations :

Flag for asexual individuals who prefer or prioritize dating other asexuals, or simply for aces who date other aces.

PT. ace4ace. explanations. Flag for asexual individuals who prefer or prioritize dating other asexuals, or simply for aces who date other aces. END OF PT.

IMAGE ID. 3 rectangular flags with 11 stripes that are, in order: black, dark blue, blue, light blue, light dull yellow, orange, light dull yellow, light blue, blue, dark blue, black. The first flag has an interlocking heart symbol. END OF ID.

୨୧ • aroace4aroace (rose4rose)

︵︵︵︵︵︵★ ꒱ explanations :

Flag for aroaces individuals who prefer or prioritize dating other aroaces, or simply for aroaces who date other aroaces.

but something about my husband, man.

i can’t deny the absolute beauty of being in love with him, the look in his eyes when he’s happy.. is something else.

stanford, my husband, is absolutely my soulmate. i believed it when we first confessed 5-6 years ago, and I believe it now.

something about t4t love and understanding is absolutely gorgeous.

i never felt comfortable being intimate with anyone like i do before. he’s a huge inspiration for all my writings.

a4a dog icons ++

ace4ace tibetan mastiff, aro4aro shiba inu, and aroace4aroace jindo

Information:

Azaleaspark (she/her prns) and Foxmane (he/they prns), Aroace4Aroace (flag by @caeliangel), Shadowclan Marish Partners.

Kits: Harrierkit, Egretkit, Cootkit, Railkit, and Waderkit (all adopted).

Other Family:

(Azaleaspark) Hibiscusfur (mother), Ratfern (father), Sinkfoot (uncle), Catkinpelt (uncle), Drystorm (half-uncle), Muddytail (half-uncle), Rosemallowheart (grandmother), Reedflame (grandfather), Root-tiger (step grandfather).

(Foxmane) Flypool (mother), Duskwing (father), Fruitsnap (sibling).

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Wrassenose (all prns besides she/her) and Ashsmoke (he/him prns), Intersex4Intersex (flag by @pwaymate), Riverclan Fishers and Mates.

Kits: Difficulty with Fertility due to Intersex Variants but do want kits. Ash = Klinefelter, Wrasse = CAH.

Other Family:

(Wrassenose) Ripplestripe (father), Glassfish (mother), Dewstream (Ripplestripe's mate), Spottedscale (half-brother), Garfang (half-brother), Turtleclaw (half-brother), Cherrystar (Ripplestripe's ex), Springstep (half-brother), Pillbugfur (half-brother), Stickleaf (half-brother), Antface (half-sister), Lampshade (Ripplestripe's ex), Berrystripe (half-sibling), Lightbulb(half-sister), Probably more half-siblings...

(Ashsmoke) Whistlepatch (father), Blue/Mama (grandmother), Bettafang (mother), Cypress-stripe (uncle), Pantherstripe (cousin), Alligatorswipe (cousin), Crawfishpelt (cousin), Mangrovedusk (uncle), Quill (uncle-in-law), Palmshine (cousin), Currentleaf (sister), Currantclaw (sibling), Acornfall (brother), Frecklestreak (brother), Marshjump (brother), Peachpetal (sister), Shadeflight (sister), Swamp-patch (sister), Crocodiletooth (grandfather), Lotustuft (grandmother).

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Whitefang (he/him prns) and Cheetahstride (he/him prns), Transmasc4Transmasc (flag by @caeliangel), Windclan Warrior and Deputy and Mates.

Kits: They do not want them.

Other Family:

(Whitefang) Palefade (mother), Greyfur (grandfather), Lightflash (grandmother).

(Cheetahstride) Swiftsnap (brother), Runningfrost (brother), Drifthawk (brother), Rushfoot (brother), Leapfall (father), Viperflower (mother).

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Rosemallowheart (she/her prns) and Root-tiger (he/him prns), Bi4Bi (flag @bi4bination), Shadowclan Elders and Mates.

Kits: Hibiscusfur, Sinkfoot, Catkinpelt (All previous are step for Root-tiger), Drystorm, and Muddytail.

Other Family:

(Rosemallowheart) Reedflame (dead mate), Pickerelweedfur (mother), Froghop (father), Hyacinthpelt (grandmother).

(Root-tiger) Rageblaze (brother), Frostbreeze (sister-in-law), Salamanderleap (nephew), Eggtooth (nephew-in-law), Endeavorclaw (father).