#aries men

Traits:

Thinkers

They are not starters or finishers. They're the ones to keep things afloat.

Private dancers (either by themselves or one on one in a private space)

Protective, borderline feral if need be.

Quiet

Easily shamed

Clumsy

A joy to be around

Smokes or drinks, some type of vice.

Likes people

Musically inclined

Wants to observe

Likes to be late

Never asks about people's past

Not an night owl but not a early riser. Very afternoon driven. Could do well as a second shifter, but once they clock out leave them the fuck alone or a grumpy guy is what you shall have. Exhaustion brings out their grumpiness. Might apologize with money or food if you have to deal with their grumpy behavior.

Likes to cuddle their friends. Would kiss their same sex buddy without a second thought.

Dependable

Lousy lovers

Likes breakfast food.

Wakes up late.

Careers:

The career has to involve some type of mission. (Ex: feed the needy, socks for tots)

Appearance:

Gruff appearance

Five o clock shadow

Nice hair

Thick hands

Looks good in suits

Relationships:

People find them for relationships rather than them looking for one.

Could fall in love easily since they feed off the other person's energy, but feels lost once that person is gone, leaving them confused.

Good person for platonic life partner, if needed.

Doesn't date unless approached first.

Kids are the same. they'll have kids if they're partner wants kids. If a divorce happens, they'll let the kids dictate the relationship of staying close or not.

Characters:

Quasimodo (Hunchback of Notre Dame)

This pairing creates a beautiful dynamic: she leads and anchors, he softens and receives. Her Aries-Saturn energy teaches him strength and commitment; his Venus-Moon energy teaches her vulnerability and emotional depth.

Here is a love story, poem, and love letter based on this powerful and intimate connection:

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🔥🌙 Love Story: “Where Fire Meets Feeling”

She entered his life like a spark —

fierce, vibrant, alive.

There was no pretense in her.

Just presence. Just purpose.

Her Aries Rising gave her a way of walking through the world like she belonged to it —

no apologies, just motion.

And her Saturn?

That was her promise —

she would never play with something she wasn’t willing to protect.

He — with his Venus and Moon — didn’t fall fast, but he fell deep.

He loved with his whole body.

He nurtured from instinct.

He didn’t need fireworks; he needed home.

At first, he mistook her fire for danger —

but then he saw the truth:

she burned not to destroy,

but to warm.

To lead.

To build.

And she mistook his softness for fragility —

until she saw how fiercely he loved.

She showed him how to fight for a future.

He showed her how to rest in a moment.

Together, they made a new kind of fire —

the kind that lasts.

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🖋️ Poem: “The Flame Who Stays”

You saw the world and walked into it —

not with hesitation,

but with holy intention.

I was the moon,

waiting in silence,

hoping for something real to rise.

And you did —

burning and brave,

with Saturn at your side like armor.

You didn’t just love me,

you stayed.

You didn’t just protect me,

you challenged me to grow.

And I —

with all my softness,

all my heart stitched into quiet places —

I opened.

Not because I had to.

But because you made even fire feel safe.

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💌 Love Letter: From Him (Venus + Moon) to Her (Aries Rising + Saturn)

My Fire, My Anchor,

You changed the way I understood love.

You didn’t whisper your feelings — you declared them.

You didn’t hesitate — you moved.

And somehow, in all your urgency, you made time for me.

You made room for my emotions,

for my softness,

for the parts of me the world has asked to stay small.

You have a fire that could consume —

but instead, you protect.

You defend what you love like a warrior.

And you’ve made me feel chosen in a way I didn’t know I needed.

Your Saturn holds my heart like a vow.

Not temporary. Not performative.

Real.

With you, I’ve learned that passion and protection can live in the same breath.

That strength can be tender.

And that even the fiercest flames can become a home.

You are my fire and my structure,

my mirror and my muse.

And I’ll spend the rest of my days

learning how to love you back —

fully, honestly, endlessly.

Yours — without question.

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Aries: be ready to go out with him to parties and clubs and stuff and physically fight girls off when they shamelessly throw themselves at him right in front of ur very eyes

Taurus: be ready for scathing critiques of ur closet (he WILL be one to talk)

Gemini: be ready for absolute perfection (this is a warning)

Cancer: be ready for some intense physical exercise or debates against conservatism. Or both. Enjoy the serenades

Leo: he's prettier than u but u r both a model and a photographer on duty at all times

Virgo: be ok with never getting reassurance (“it goes without saying”)

Libra: be ready to date his mom and ex too. And compete with them sometimes. Ask about his dad and be ready to listen. u might not have to but just be ready

Scorpio: too bad! u have already lost and would have way more success if u actually did not want to date him at all

Sagittarius: be ok with the bare minimum of relationship maintenance in exchange for relatively good sex and free dinner like once or twice a month

Capricorn: be ok with seeing him like 4 hours a week (he’s busy working (out))

Aquarius: MASTER detachment make it your BITCH and be patient. unlike scorpio, u don't have to actively not want to date him, just be ambivalent about it

I decided to make this a serie. Enjoy ! ;)

Aries placements or 1st House placements/ Stellium in Aries or in 1st house

First of all, Aries is a cardinal sign and it’s usually the first one everyone thinks about when it comes to that category. They have the quality of the first flame, the first fire ever created. Nothing can quite tame the flame. This gives them an unbreakable determination to succeed in life just like the other cardinals signs, they are leaders and innovators in their field of choice. Their ruling planet is mars so they truly embody the qualities of mars : determination, go-getter, hot-headed, passionate, masculine.

Aries are the most competitive signs among all signs. They want to be number one and they will be number one no matter what. They love challenges and competition. Friendly competition is the best for them to grow and develop their qualities and strength.

Btw I don’t know why people don’t talk about this often so I’ll say it. Aries rules the head so it means smart. Even if they don’t seem like it they usually think a lot. Even if what they do seems like it’s not planned or irrational. They usually prefer to go straight up to the simplest yet most effective way to get what they want. I found them quiet smart and strategic. I’ve never met one single Aries sun who didn’t force me to think of different ways to win against them because they have already covered the whole game/situation to be sure they can win.

As long as they get what they want, they don’t really care about the rest. They truly have the « IDGAF » attitude and they’re the one who embody it perfectly. Because it’s really straight up in anyone face lmao.

I have an Aries MC myself I honestly give zero fucks sometimes at work.

Finally I’ll conclude by saying that Aries placements are kinda scared. They are scared honestly. Because they are the first sign of the zodiac ? That’s maybe why they behave impulsively. It’s like a kid who’s supposed to learn how to swim but it’s his first time at the pool and he’s scared. Aries placements experience first times differently than other signs. They need to feel safe and guided to not fear the experience and dive in.

I dated an Aries Venus and he was scared of plenty of new experiences I wanted to try with him and he wanted to take it slow when it came to love, playtime or when it came to his feelings. I felt that he was actually afraid to start a serious relationship for the first time. I always was guiding him for him to feel safe with his emotions and his love. He told me he was discovering a new world with me.

Last thing : the opposite of Aries is Libra so Aries can also demonstrate balance and peace within their peers and friends, most Aries placements that I know are loved and popular. They make friends easily and people trust them fast because they’re honest and straightforward and they go for it ! They’re really admirable people. Aries is really the popular kid just like Libra.