#antisocial pd

"I can handle your disorders," says the fucking clown who's about to complain when I act like my disorders.

"having aspd/npd doesn't make you a bad person" is cool and all but can we start also accepting narcs and antisocials who *are* bad people because of their disorder? not to excuse bad actions but some people are bad people and abusive and toxic because of their disorder, and they still deserve compassion, respect and recovery.

having aspd and/or npd and trying to comfort a friend is like trying to run a marathon without any training istg

It’s very ironic to me that, in discussions surrounding Cluster B personality disorders, people with NPD (who are very sensitive to perceived insults/criticism) are unfairly maligned to the point of being labelled inherently abusive, and people with HPD (who have a strong desire for attention) are forgotten about/ignored.

if people are allowed to talk about their suicidal thoughts on here, youre allowed to talk about your homicidal ones. youre allowed to struggle with them, believe it or not.

no one genuinely even cares if someone commits suicide. theyll just forget about you in a few days youll just be remembered as a lesson, as a story to pity, as a story to romanticize, because "time fixes everything" they will always find someone to replace you, theyll find a new shinier thing to replace you with, life will always go on no matter if youre there or not, youre just a tiny speck in the billions of people that have lived and died before you. your death will be meaningless