#anj rambles

older siblings are just as much parents as actual parents are, sometimes even more. We constantly do things for our siblings that we shouldn’t have to do ever, things that our parents should doing but because we’re siblings, we do it anyways. We never want our younger siblings to feel the way we felt or for them to think they don't have anyone, because they have us. Don’t try to invalidate someone’s experience just because you had a different experience.