#androgony

It’s so hard designing androgynous characters because you can add as many masculine features as you want and no one will bat an eye, but the second you add a feminine feature they’re girlcoded or afab or not seen as enby anymore. I hate all the sexism that views men as the standard and women as frivolous. I wanna mix feminine and masculine features but can’t without people automatically sorting them into boxes in their heads. And then when I say this I sound like I’m just pretending to care about them being androgynous and everyone knows I secretly think of them as a girl or a boy which I don’t, some people just do that automatically and then assume everyone does.

I wish people knew that when I say "I'm agender" I actually mean I want to possess the same level of creature-hood that vaguely implies masculinity as the Creaking King

i aspire to one day break a gender swap filter by being too androgynous