Jul 16
Also hate how i saw something that said "believing everything will work out" is "toxic positivity." Literally shut the fuck up. Believing the universe has a plan for me and will bestow upon me the opportunities to learn and grow from "good" or "bad" experiences is NOT toxic. This is the most healthy minded and at peace I've ever been. Thank you.
#i get what they mean like yeah being passive in a bad situation and all sounds like toxic positivity or whatever tf#sure. it could be. if it's only applied in situations similar to when you cause something bad yourself and end up using that as an excuse to#to not fix it or take responsibility for it#and whatever#but this is my whole mindset#to anything and everything good or bad#'what can i learn from this' im always asking myself#every experience is an opportunity to learn and grow!!!! thats why everything will work out!! if i believe otherwise i will rot in sadness#and we dont want that anymore!!#obviously make moves to brighten your future but LET IT BE bitch!! LET. IT. BE.#dont force shit and worry about it excessively bc whatever happens will happen bc a lot of outcomes are out of your control#and thats okay! everything will work out especially if you learn from it and try again#like cmon quit trying to control every outcome outside of you...you can only control you!#your actions and your reactions! this is what believing everything will work out means!!!#to me at least#so fuck you and your weird made up “toxic positivity” term thats lame as hell and stupid#quit trying to control everything except yourself (DONT!! suppress yourself obviously!)#stoicism pretty much#and you will be sm happier for it frfr#myramblings#bc i sure did ramble#pretty much is just all about letting go of control
