warning for use of slurs / derogatory terms
this is a mix of alterhumisia and transandrophobia but i think its still relevant to send here
( for context, this happened a while ago and i am no longer friends with this person for a plethora of reasons )
i was talking to my friend ( she / they ) about how i get dysphoria from being transmasc, and i also get dysphoria from being an alterhuman, and that they're often hard to differentiate since they present in similar ways ( i get gender dysphoria from not having enough body / facial hair but also nonhuman dysphoria as i don't have fur, things like that ) and they instantly started saying that i must be faking being transmasc then.
i asked her why and she said " you cant be alterhuman and transmasc, that's not how it works. you saying your dysphoria is similar is proof of that. " so, i was really confused and said " but you're trans too ?? and you're also a therian ?? " to which they replied " but i'm not transmasc. that's the problem. you're transmasc. "
after a small back and fourth of us debating on whether i'm actually an alterhuman or not, she said " well you still look like a cunt so you are just a cunt. bitchy theyfabs like you just want to invade the alterhuman community when you should know by now that you aren't welcome. "
there was more that was said but i cant write it because uh. slurs that neither of us could reclaim were used ( by them ). but i was genuinely just shocked that she was so comfortable saying that to me.
This is transandrophobia and exorsexism
(I don't know enough about alterhumisia to comment on it but I will take your word for it and tag as such)