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FREAKING TRAIN CRIB.. oh and there are others I guess.. 🙄 /j

Let's talk about padded agere!

(TW: Mentions of kinks/fetishes)

Where I stand with diapers:

I see diapers as just another agere tool like a pacifier, or a bottle, or a blanket. I understand that for some, diapers can be a tool that helps or encourages their regression. This does not mean I support the kinks and fetishes associated with diapers or other age based dynamics.

With that said..

It's come to my attention that some age regressors believe that if other regressors use diapers for any reasons outside of medical necessity, it's a kink or fetish, regardless of whether one identifies as a regressor.

This is not true. There are many different reasons regressors might use diapers outside of medical usage, and those reasons are valid reasons. It doesn't take away from them being regressors, it doesn't automatically mean they are part of kink(s) or fetish(es) (communities) or engaging in sfw kinks, and just because you believe something is gross doesn't automatically make it wrong, or give you the right to assume and sexualize it. Diaper-based (and most) Kinks and fetishes have everything to do with intent and sexual attraction, not about whether someone is just wearing/using them.

Here are some reasons a regressor might wear diapers outside of medical usage:

➜ Comfort & Regression tool

Some padded regressors use diapers when regressed because it brings back a sense of snuggness and security, and just like how other agere gear items like paci’s and toys may help some regressors regress, diapers also help others regress. The cutesy patterns also make fun! (Just because something is fun does not mean is sexual!)

➜ Deep regression

Some regressors can regress deeply enough to where it can become harder to understand and be aware of the signs and cues of needing to use the bathroom. So they’d use diapers as a precaution, and to prevent accidents.

➜ Menstrual cycles

Some regressors wear diapers during their menstrual cycle instead of other menstrual products because they are more absorbent, all-around coverage, and comfortable.

➜ Bed wetting (TW: MENTIONS OF BRIEF AND SUBTLE SA & TRUAMA)

Some regressors struggle with bed wetting when regressed deeply. SA survivor’s and trauma survivor’s regressors may also struggle with bedwetting.

As an age regressor I understand that it is easy to assume. It is human to be scared or disgusted by something that’s seemingly weird. Most regressors don’t want anything sexually-related to enter their safe space, which is 100% valid. I myself have trauma regarding people among the abdl and other age based kink communities and used to be very biased towards padded regressors. Healing through my trauma and growing up is what helped me realize that for those regressors who do use diapers are using them in the same sense that a little regressor would use a pacifier: as a tool that helps their specific wants and needs as a regressor.

Before immediately assuming anything about a diapered user you should check the tags of any post, and read intro posts if any.

To the padded regressors:

You are genuine regressors.

You are not gross.

You are not inappropriate

You are not unsightly

You are valid

And I apologize on my past beliefs, and in advance of anyone who’s ever made you second guess yourself, feel shame, or feel gross. You are trying your best to cope in a world full of sad, miserable, and judgmental, people who would rather stay ignorant than understand why you do the things you do. Unless someone is willing to be educated, save your explanations, you don’t owe anyone. You only have one life, so make the most of it. If wearing or using diapers benefits your regression in any way, that’s okay. Block those who are rude. You are loved! (and that goes towards all regressors not just padded ones.)

(I like comments guys! 😭 I know everyone’s shy and has social anxiety (I do too). So, to encourage conversation and human interaction I’m going to start adding these little short responses questions to some of my posts!)

I NEED to see regressors drawing themselves/personas with their fictional caregivers ASAP

I’ll go first.. 😌

Sans is definitely one of my fictional caregivers no questions asked. I absolutely love undertale!

Now I'ma just start spit balling Charaters who I'd like to be my fictional cg. More undertale characters: Toriel and Asgore, as well as Bear from Bear in the big blue house, Eddie Dear from welcome home aaand it’s late so I’ll have to edit this later and add more!

I’m sorry for the sudden change. I know I usually put out a poll of whether to change my style or not, but I was just testing out stuff and I really wanted to stick with this!

Playing with toy plane emoji:

Playing with dollies emoji:

There needs to be an agere daycare/kindergarten!

I’m surprised that an agere specific daycare/kindergarten doesn’t exist yet in the big 2026. From what I know, there are only small events that you can go to in conventions. But, ain’t enough for me. I need the full experience, 5 days out of the week, and not In a discord server where people barely talk 😭

It would be a kindergarten/daycare specially for regressors. I’d have to call it an inner child healing and therapy center or something and age entry would be 18 and up!

It’d be splint between a more preschool-like side, and kindergarten for middles. It would run Monday through Friday, ( for special sleepovers events on weekends) and maybe start a little later into the day so that those of us with jobs can attend. You would have to sign up for it, and maybe pay a small fee for entry every couple months so that things like field trips, activities, staff pay, and repairs can be paid for.

There would be playtime, story time, snack time, and more! All guided by licensed professionals, and therapists on standby for support and stuff. And on special days we could do field trips and small surprises like taking everyone out for a treat or something.

I’ve had an idea like this since I was 16. I knew it wouldn’t be a possibility until I turned 18 and somehow became a millionaire, but a girl dream. I’m 18 now, but nowhere close to a millionaire… yet.

One of these days guys.. One of these days..

In the future (or even now) if I’m financially stable enough, or have people guiding me towards making something like this happen, I might actually make an attempt on opening and running a place like this!

What the theme of the kindergarten/daycare would be:

I want a crib so baaaaad… I’d imagine feeling so safe and secured with a low raised bed and bars on each side!

My bed sits smack dab in the middle of my room, and I have slanted wall and tall radiators so there’s really nowhere else to move it. I’m always close to the edge or practically falling off, and I always wake up to my lovies on the floor, among other things. >:[

So not only would a crib make me feel very comfy-cozy, it’d convenient to for me as well! And I could put a blanket over it and feel like I’m in a big ol’ cozy tent aughhhhh!

But OMG they’re so expensive! An adult sized crib ranges from 1,000$ to 2,000$ sometimes even 3,000$! I could never imagine myself with that much money in a million years!

And if you aren’t trying to buy one from Etsy the you’d have to hire a carpenter or something and I’d be so embarrassed to do that! Like how do you just casually ask a wood working professional

“Hey! Can you make me an adult sized crib with hearts carved out in the front and back of the baseboards? Please and thank you!”

And the carpenter stands there awkwardly inside of a nursery that looks like it was build for a giant baby-, probably questioning if they should ask questions or quit their job. And trust me they’re gonna ask questions- or be curious at the very least.

I think I’d be better off emotionally and financially learning to woodwork on my own and build one myself 😞