From what I found..A good way to stay in the little space is to look at what media is trending in Asian countries. Japan's top 4 movies for this year currently are Mario Galaxy, Zootopia 2, Michael, and a Detective Conan film meanwhile ours is mostly depressing gritty stuff outside of a few feel good movies. Notice how being a Disney adult over there isn't treated like a shameful thing like it is in America..
I also changed all of my social media like Youtube, Twitter, etc. to language I cannot understand so i'm not being bombarded with negativity on my algo pulls because if I can't understand it it wont hurt me :3c
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"What is agere" and other FAQ about age regression - for people who have literally never heard of it before
Tws: mentions of child sexual abuse, sex, and the kink community
What is age regression? - Simply, age regression (or agere for short) is when somebody's mind reverts back to a younger age, whatever that may look like for them. For most, it's more complicated than that: age regression is defined by most as a coping mechanism, and is most commonly used to cope with trauma, be it childhood abuse or not. Sometimes, people just do it for fun, to relax, or to heal their inner child. Some people regress to animals (called petre or pet regression). Some people do it for no reason at all; that's just how their brain handles stress. Usually, age regression is helpful, but if it is used maladaptively, or if it is triggered unwanted, it can become frustrating and even scary to manage. It is not somebody's fault for regressing. Even if a regressor's headspace is maladaptive, it should be treated with respect and care.
What does agere look like? - there is no "look" to agere. Regressors act all sorts of ways, because theyre people! But some common things you may see in the agere community are pacifiers, stuffed animals, cute/kidlike clothes, toys, and yes, even diapers. These are comfort items. Often, humans have these things, especially if theyre stressed or vulnerable: a kid had a blanket or a toy, but adults may have a pen they keep with them to click, or a necklace they wear 24/7 because they "just feel off" without it.
The big question everyone wants to ask and never seem to listen to the answer. Is it sexual? - the age regression community is a sfw space because agere is first and foremost a coping mechanism. It needs to be kept a safe for work community separate from kink because 1. There are minors in this community, and because healthy coping mechanisms should never be gatekept from anybody, minors should always be welcome here. And 2. Plenty of people in the agere community are triggered by being sexualized, likely because of such a large number of us being sexually abused as children, but also, frankly, because it is a boundary we have set, and crossing a boundary for sexual gratification is never okay. Yes, the ddlg/abdl kink community keep interacting with us (you'd think they'd understand consent right?). this is likely because our aesthetics and gear are similar, and most of the porn blogs that interact with us are either bots, or people who dont understand tumblr and are not using it as a social media the same way the agere community uses it. (I cannot speak for any other websites because im only really on tumblr, but I'd assume its much the same.) Basically, no, and we'd like you to please stop reacting to it and treating it like it is.
Why tell us (the internet, whoever is reading this) about it if its a coping mechanism? Why not keep it private? - because, frankly, the internet is a space to share. Regressors share their stories, experiences, creations, art etc, because social media is a place for sharing all those things, and because a lot of us want to let other people (scared, hurting, traumatized, vulnerable, or maybe ashamed people) know that it is okay for them to feel their feelings, and it is okay for them to cope with them however they want. You dont ask why somebody posts about their medical emergencies, or about their stress, or about their hobbies. Why is agere as a coping mechanism (or hobby) any different?
Why would my loved one want me to know about their age regression? - they trust you. That's why. If your loved one is revealing this part of themself about you, it is likely because they trust you a lot. If your loved one shared this post with you, it is because they really, really hope you'll take a moment to try and understand them better. You dont have to be a parent. You don't have to act like they're a baby if you don't want to. But pushing them away and brushing this off will only hurt them, and it will NOT make them stop regressing, it will just make them want YOU out of their life.
How do I treat somebody who is age regressed? - ASK THEM. Do what you are most comfortable with, and do nothing they're uncomfortable with. Communicate. Some age regressors like to be treated like kids, others don't want to be treated differently at all. You don't have to indulge their age regression yourself by treating them like a child or interacting with it, and that's okay, but if you want to keep them in your life, it is important to understand that their regression is NOT about you, and it is not up to you to decide how they cope with whatever theyre coping with, or how they spend their money and free time. Read that again. More people should understand it.
What do I say if I dont want to interact with it and am uncomfortable with it? - this is one people dont want to talk about, but it is just as valid to be uncomfortable with agere as it is to be an age regressor. The difference is how you treat people. If you want to be kind but also state a boundary, something like this should help: "I read up on age regression, and I understand that it is a coping mechanism that works for you, but it makes me uncomfortable and I would rather not interact with that part of your life. I still love/appreciate you and want the best for you, but it just isnt for me."
How do I start taking care of someone if I DO want to be a part of their regression? - again, communicate. Ask what they need. Be aware that if you do want to act as a caregiver (somebody who takes care of a regressor, often in a parental-like role but doesn't have to be), your regressor will likely be over the moon as a lot of us would love to have a caregiver, but some regressors dont want or need a caregiver and that's alright too. If they're sharing with you, they probably want you to be a part of it! This doesn't have to look like buying them pacifiers and stuffies, either. It can look like making them a snack while they watch cartoons. It can look like tucking them in and handing them their plushie. It can look like going outside in the rain and stomping on puddles together. Have fun wuth it, seriously! It's SUPPOSED to be fun and relaxing!
What is a "perma"-regressor? - a Permaregressor (what I am!) Is somebody who is, more or less, in a younger headspace 24/7. This can look like anything from a 16 year old who feels like a 13 year old, to a 20 year old who feels like a 7 year old, to a 40 year old who feels 1, and anywhere in between. Many permaregressors (and a lot of non-24/7 regressors too!) are neurodivergent and/or disabled, and this can be a big reason for us being stuck in a younger mindset. It can also be a result of trauma, or can be tied to a Little (child alter) in a system, or can even just be because that's how their personality and interests turned out to be. Always remember that adult (18+ bodily) permaregressors are still adults, and can still do adult things like drink, smoke, have a job, drive, have sex etc even if always in a younger headspace. Also please remember that, legally and regarding their autonomy, permaregressors should always be treated as the age they bodily are. Permaregression is separate from the broader age regression community, not only because it isnt a headspace you can go in and out of, but because many permaregressors can also regress younger separately. For example, I'm bodily 18, stuck at around 13-14 (most of the time), and sometimes regress to as young as 2, though i can be pretty much any brainage.
Can age regressors have sex? - age regressors can do whatever they want because theyre a human with autonomy. It isn't our job to say what they can and cant do behind closed doors or in private. It is, however, our job as a community to keep our space (the Age Regression space) safe for work, as i explained. There is a big difference between gatekeeping what a grown (or teen) person can and can't do with their own body or headspace, and keeping your online community safe as it is intended to be. We are all strangers behind screens here.
Have any more questions? Please feel free to leave them below and I will answer whatever I can. Others are also free to jump in and add if they want!
Watching cartoons and playing on your phone is fun, but no kiddo should spend all their time on electronics. Here's some fun activities to replace screen time!
Go to a park and explore
Go to a playground
Go on a walk and try to notice all the different types of flowers or birds or other small things
Sit in the grass and watch the things that come through
Pick dandelions and make wishes
Point out a squirrel and watch it for a bit
Do some coloring pages or activity sheets
Bring your toys with you while you do other activities
Narrate to them what you're doing, and have them ask questions and react
Play with play-doh or clay
Build legos by just putting pieces together until you like it
Make loom bracelets! They're easy to make and most sets will come with a small instruction booklet. (You can also make them on your fingers.)
Do a chore you've been putting off, but make it into an adventure. You're not just sweeping the stairs, you're sweeping the stairs to the deck of your pirate ship!
Play a board game, even by yourself
Make your plushies dance
Write a journal about what your ideal little day would look like. Later, when you're big, you can look it over and see what might be possible!
Hug your plushies and make them hug you back
Tell them about your day
Go on an adventure, like going to a new place, or taking a trip to the store
Reorganize your bed
Built a blanket fort to keep out monsters
Pretend reading is forbidden, and you have to read your books sneakily
if u get anxious about ur plushies during storms like i do, i made this for a way to easily wrap them up so u can grab them all to take to a safe place or just feel more reassured about them being safe ⛈️
While this post is halloween-themed and may be spooky, all that I recommend will be child-friendly. 🦇 please LET ME KNOW if any of these are made with or include AI! That is never my intention. 🎃 this post is based on my personal regression. Please keep that in mind!
🧟♀️``~ I put these together because I love you all and I wanted to thank you for sticking with me during these hard times in my life! ☆ you all are my purpose
Dividers by @/strangergraphics
Background Noise
Halloween is Grinch Night!
3 Hours of Vintage Halloween Commercials (60s-00s)
Halloween Music
Goosebumps Season 1 Marathon
Pooh's Heffalump Halloween (2005)
Goosebumps Season 2 Marathon
Rosanna Pansino's Halloween Nerdy Nummies Treats
Decor ideas:
Hear me out. Vintage Halloween crafts.
Vintage Halloween costumes would make cute decor too!
"Does __ count as hallowe-" YES.
Actually the further you're reaching the better. Chucky is Halloween. That obscure scary movie from your childhood is Halloween. That episode of TMNT that scared you as a kid is Halloween. Goth? Halloween. Halloweencore? Also Halloween. Show off what Halloween means to you!!
Paper mache masks!!
Make Halloween costumes for your stuffies to display them in!
"Creepier" collections- like clown dolls, Halloween toys, horror movie memorabilia, etc
Halloween coloring sheets! You can find a lot of them on Pinterest :]
🦇 🧹 <- More like this.... (*these are old posts and they say that I require credit, but I dont anymore! These are all f2u without credit )
🧙♀️ Requests are currently open!
🎃 * can't decorate your real room? That's fine! Collecting pngs/graphics and decorating a virtual room is fun too :] sideblogs are also great to act as virtual bedrooms!
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First of all! The BEST way to know how to support someone is to just ask them. No two age regressors are alike and we all have different needs! There isn't just one catch-all for what a regressor needs just like their isn't a set list for What A Baby Needs or What A Puppy Needs. It is always good to ask clarifying questions!!
Secondly the most important thing anyone can do for a loved one who is a regressor is to just have an open mind and listen when they talk about it. When he tells you about what agere is and how it helps/hinders them, take what he says into consideration (BEFORE any thoughts of "that's weird"! Remember that weirdness is a subjective social construct that means nothing!) Let him make space for it in his everyday life if he wants to. Be open-minded.
Take into consideration that the fact that he trusted you enough to let you know is a big step in itself! A lot of regressors are closeted or mask their regression. This is because by far one of the worst parts about being a regressor is the harassment and stigma from other people for it. the only thing that could possibly come from rejecting his regression and pushing it away is the loss of that safety with you, regardless of how the regression itself impacts him. The first thought should always be on his mental and physical health, not how ""weird"" he's being by age regressing (which he isnt!)
Also doing your own research on agere and initiating conversations about it (and asking questions about it!!!!!!!) always lets us know that you care about us. Regardless of if you understand it all the way, or if you dont understand the reason why he does it, or if you dont understand some of the things he does because of it.
You dont always have to understand perfectly! We don't expect you to be a perfect superhero! It's the listening to us and showing your genuine interest rather than judgement that we need more than anything :)
If you feel like your thoughts are more young, then yes, you are regressing. And yes, you can 100% call yourself an age regressor even if you only regress while going to bed!!
Also, a some regressors dont really baby talk out loud (like me, unless I'm regressed really young). Some age regressors mask it and some just dont feel the need to change their behaviors at all. It's perfectly fine! Everyone is different and its okay if your agere doesnt look like everyone else's :]
