#advice needed

Another example is that I like the Blahåj from Ikea, but I was kinda worried about being seen as trans for it, but that really shouldnt be a problem, so i dont know why it is I don't want to be transphobic. I hope I'm not. But for some reason some prejudice from my conservative days seems to linger on even tho i try to get rid of that perjudice. Any advice?

like is it possible does it go away or is it just something you have to confront or live with or WHAT I’m so sick of it

I'm not fit so it could just be that but at the same time I don't think that it should hurt as much as it does. The pain isn't disabling necessarily but it does build up and takes a little while to go away completely if I sit or lie down. I recently had surgery on my toenails and was using crutches to help me before and after that and the pain wasn't so bad using them and I feel like crutches wouldn't help that much if there was nothing wrong with me, right?

Weighted blankets are horrid awful things for me and top sheets are never blanket-y enough.... I've been thinking maybe something made with more natural fiber than my current blanket might help I worry about the price (and also being able to find a color/pattern that I like)

I need HER to give me advice lmao 💀 She literally fostered one of our shared friends one time so I feel like she’d know more about this than I would. Idk it’ll prolly be fine.

I was looking at IPads but they roll them out so quick that by the time I've bought one it'll have stopped being supported by the ios update 😔