the ramp (made for riding their bike down really fast)

the accessible seat (for them to have more leg room)

the accessible bathroom stall (for shitting and watching tiktoks)

the elevator (mobility aids take up too much space)

the automatic open button door (they are going the opposite direction and like hitting buttons)

the manual open door (you take too long to open it)

the sidewalk (not walking fast enough)

it's talking to the dog while they're on duty. no amount of "oh i know I can't pet you but you're so cute!" when you do so at a restaurant while she's laying at my feet makes it okay.

it's pointing the dog out to your kids and encouraging them to get excited and yell when we come close, when all I'm trying to do is grab a package of hot dogs for dinner. or allowing them to follow us around until you trigger a meltdown, and then realize you've fucked up.

it's coming up to ask me questions when she's actively performing task work, and when I inform you she's tasking you proceed to ask questions about her tasks and what she does.

it's being incessant about asking about what my dog is trained to do and what MY issues are, because you can't manage your own curiosity and emotions.

it's recording us and photographing us without my consent. there are at least four recordings of my dog and i in the world somewhere, and i believe photos of us while she's actively been tasking.

it's denying us access to locations on rules that don't exist.

it's refusing to educate yourself on federal ADA and state laws, refusing to listen when i inform you on those laws, and spreading misinformation instead of listening to handlers.

it's hiding us away out of sight so we don't "bother others" when we go out into public under the guise of making the dog comfortable, or "giving us space" when there were plenty of other options that weren't isolated and alone.

its following us through stores and public locations to gawk at my dog.

it's being denied 10+ jobs that otherwise you were loved for because you told them at the end of the phone interview "just so you're aware, I also have a service animal and will be needing accommodations" and suddenly they no longer want you, despite being okay with the wheelchair and crutches. because everyone loves the dog until they have to put in the effort for the handler.

it's speaking to the dog instead of the handler, or ignoring the handler's needs.

it's becoming a public spectacle every time you leave your home, because everyone wants to ask questions, talk to you, and fawn over your dog.

it's being the last thought for an event, or not even a thought at all, with people who know you will always have a service dog accompanying you and require accommodation in all circumstances, whether that be just the dog or dog and wheelchair. its knowing you were not included in the planning, or were expected to leave her behind and put yourself at risk.

its being asked or told to leave your dog at home, because "why do you need them? can't you just go without them?"

its becoming angry when you're asked to leave us alone, and causing the fear of aggression or retaliation for speaking up for yourself.

its people taking your aid less seriously because its a dog, and they only see a cute companion, and it can't possibly be as important as the other aids you rely on, despite her being the thing that has saved your life more than once.

its taking your pets into places they should not be because "you want them there" or "whats the worst that could happen"

TL;DR - These are newly proposed blueprints for renovating the basement of an incredibly cool queer/BIPOC-run affordable housing co-op in my city, with the aim of creating an ACCESSIBLE community space and mutual aid hub!

If you have a moment, please take either a quick or a long look at these images, and let me know what stands out to YOU as good/bad/missing/in-need-of-change! Or just let me know what you need in a public space in order to feel welcome, especially as it pertains to wheelchair lifts!

ANY amount of feedback is so, SO appreciated!! ☺️

More (optional) detail, if you want:

I have one "BEFORE" blueprint, and three updated proposal blueprints for what the space could look like AFTER renovation.

In the long-term, the co-op is planning to install an elevator to serve all 5 floors of the building, including the basement. But in the short-term, with their current funding, the plan is to install a wheelchair lift that goes from outside the first floor, down to the inside of the basement.

The "AFTER" blueprints include widening the hallways by several inches.

I am going to recommend a changing table for the bathroom; ideally, an adult-sized changing table. Idk yet if they can afford to remove the shower that's there now.

I am also going to double-check with the designers that all the proposed door widths are wide enough for a large wheelchair to get through. In this current scale, several openings appear to be too small.

The goal of the community space is to provide a mutual aid hub - providing food, supplies, space to meet, and emergency preparedness for the community!

Thank you very very much!! :)

person A gets out of bed with no problems. they go downstairs and make themself some breakfast standing at the counter. they sit down, feeling fine.

person B gets out of bed with their legs aching as they stand. they go downstairs and make themself some breakfast, their body aching even more. by the time they sit down to eat they feel sore all over and exhausted.

person C gets out of bed, and gets their cane to help them down the stairs. without the cane and the banister, they would likely fall down the stairs. they make breakfast sitting down at a stool by the counter.

person D gets out of bed with support from a pulley and/or a hoist and/or their carers, and transfers into their wheelchair. they take the stairlift down the stairs into their downstairs wheelchair, and make breakfast from their wheelchair.

person E cannot get out of bed at all because their symptoms are too severe. a carer makes them breakfast and brings it to them in bed.

person A is able bodied. they are made able bodied by the fact they can easily do stuff (eg getting out of bed and making breakfast) without consequence. person B, C, D, and E are all disabled. full stop. we’re all part of the same community, and we have to remember there’s so much in common we have.

it can be hard to express your gender when your body is working against you but nothing about your disability invalidates your transness, i promise ✨

Ablebodied people writing "becoming a monster as a metaphor for disability": Disabled People Scary. They Probably Want To Hurt Me. They're So Scary. Get Them Away From Me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And you can really, really, really tell the difference.

Exibit A: Godzilla as a Young Man Named Mike, by EM Faulds

Exibit B: Obsolescence, by Martha Wells, as part of a free anthology PDF, available in both English and Spanish.