#actually pdid

An example I’ve heard not applicable to me

Actually. Depending on how that occurs, it could very well be something that contributes to the formation of a CDD.

If it was “if I don’t wash the dishes, my parent beats me” then yeah.

If it was “if I don’t wash the dishes, my parent will lock me in a cupboard” then yeah.

If it was “if I don’t wash the dishes, my parent will yell and scream at me” then yeah.

If it was “if I don’t wash the dishes, I get silent treatment” then yeah

If these are all happening frequently, or other punishment methods I have not mentioned, and it’s something that’s inescapable then it can absolutely contribute. Just because it was “small” (ie not necessarily overtly abusive) doesn’t mean it can’t have contributed to causing a CDD.

Not to mention if these are happening just over washing some dishes, then there is likely other traumatic issues going on in the household.

Unpopular opinion: the transgender community is toxic and hostile as fuck for no reason

(Most of the things I'm about to mention (except one or two) were told to me before I considered myself trans-exclusionary, emphasising the fact that none of the things that happened to me had any valid reasoning behind them).

ANYWAYS

2026 fucking sucks cuz wdym I'll get sent rape and death threats for not wanting to interact with the transgender community (I have PTSD and I was sa'ed by my friend who literally IS transgender so obvs there are triggers there).

Y'ALL WILL NOT BELIEVE THE THINGS I'VE HEARD. YOU WILL NOT BELIEVE IT. I've been told my sexual assault wasn't real, and that all my sa'er did was probably look at me wrong. I've been called transphobic for saying I don't want to have anything to do with the community so that I don't get triggered. I've been told sex with a trans 'woman' would FIX ME. BY AN IRL PERSON. I'm a MINOR. I'M 16. 16 YEARS OLD. 16 YEARS OLD AND BEING TOLD HAVING A DERANGED MAN FUCK ME WILL FIX MY PTSD.

I've been told my male alters make me 'genderfluid.' I HAVE P-DID. Do you know what DID stands for? DISSOCIATIVE IDENTITY DISORDER. IDENTITY DISORDER. DISORDER. IT'S A FUCKING DISORDER. AND I'M BEING TOLD THAT HAVING ALTERS OF DIFFERENT GENDERS IS CONSIDERED AN IDENTITY. It's not a fucking identity it's a DISORDER. THEY'RE MY ALTERS. MY FUCKING ALTERS. I don't care what you want me to do, they're my alters, they hate you, I hate you too, FUCK OFF.

It happens with my alterhumanity too. I'm an alterhuman myself, I have nonhuman alters. Apparently someone can't be transphobic and a therian at the same time. Says fucking who? I've been told to "pick a lane," but what happened to your little rants about therianthropy not being a choice? So you're just going to betray the meaning of your whole community just because you had a tantrum when you discovered people have different opinions to you?

systems with osdd, you are loved.

systems with p-did/di-dd, you are loved.

systems with low amnesia, you are loved.

systems with high amnesia, you are loved.

systems with differing alters, you are loved.

systems with alters that don't differ much, you are loved.

systems with nonhuman alter, you are loved.

nonhuman systems, you are loved.

RAMCOA/OEA/TBMC/Programmed systems, you are loved.

systems who used to be endo/pro endo, you are loved.

systems who used to be harmful, you are loved.

diagnosed systems, you are loved.

self diagnosed systems, you are loved.

suspected systems, you are loved.

undiagnosed systems, you are loved.

systems who don't remember their trauma, you are loved.

systems who remember their trauma, you are loved.

queer systems, you are loved.

systems who use xenogender/neopronouns, you are loved.

systems who use parts terminology, you are loved.

systems who use alters terminology, you are loved.

systems who use headmates terminology, you are loved.

systems who use any term to replace parts, you are loved.

systems who like to be treated as multiple, you are loved.

systems who like to be treated as one person, you are loved.

systems who want final fusion, you are loved.

systems who want functional multiplicity, you are loved.

systems who are still in an abusive situation, you are loved.

systems that have multiple/comorbid disorders, you are loved.

systems who are neurodivergent, you are loved.

polyfragmented systems, you are loved.

systems with a high headcount, you are loved.

systems with a low headcount, you are loved.

systems who have a headspace, you are loved.

systems who don't have a headspace, you are loved.

systems who use plural, you are loved.

systems who don't use plural, you are loved.

It's looking at close family photographs and not knowing who any of the people are. It's forgetting friends, forgetting family, forgetting loved ones. Forgetting peoples' faces, their voices, not understanding who's texting or calling you. It's not remembering even having fun, or happy events.

It's difficulty with school and work, sometimes being physically unable to comprehend the information you're receiving. It's losing your job because you forget that you even have one. It's being lucky if you even graduate. It's being unable to have a driver's license if you get diagnosed. It's not being able to even get a job if you have it listed as a disability in your paperwork.

It's being paranoid, afraid of the people around you. It's random bouts of emotions that make no sense, such as anger or fear. It's not being able to remember what some emotions feel like. It's even not being able to process emotions.

It's intrusive thoughts that feel impossible to get around. It's potentially endangering yourself or others, sometimes without even knowing why. In cases of abuse, it's intrusive thoughts about being abused. It's unwanted desires, impulses, and urges. It's being terrified of your own mind.

It's comorbid with other disorders that are created from trauma. Systems often are borderline, narcissistic, antisocial, histronic, obsessive compulsive, schizoid, etc etc etc, multiple of them, or in extremely severe cases, almost all of them.

Of course, these experiences vary from person to person, however this isn't "there are people in my head" funtimes. CDDs are created from extreme childhood trauma, usually abuse, where our personalities split to cope with the trauma. Alters are a symptom, not the whole disorder.

If you're non-traumagenic, or support them in any capacity, you're ableist. Point blank. And if you are tulpa or support them, you're racist, too. Tulpamancy is an advanced spiritual practice from Eastern Asia religions that takes years to understand and perform. It is completely different than alters.

🪅 Is splitting a frequent occurrence for you? How long does splitting take for you? What is that experience like?

🪁 What's a unifying like/dislike that (mostly) everyone in your system shares?

🔥 Are there any alters that swear more/less than most of you?

🏆 Who is a alter you'd like to thank/give some recognition to? (no need to name names if you're/they're not comfortable!)

💐 What is something someone has done/can do that makes you feel seen/supported as a system?

📻 How does internal communication work for you? Does the ability to communicate vary between alters? Does communication take the form of words, images, emotions, etc.?

🥁 Do you experience chronic pain?

🎒 Are there any items you carry with you that help ground you? If not, what would you choose to carry?

🐾 Do you have any non-human alters? Feel free to share what species!

🗓️ Do you have any alters that feel connected to/like they're from a different time period? Feel free to elaborate!

🍋‍🟩 Are there flavours most of you like/dislike that specific alter(s) hate/love?

🎻 Are there any songs/genres of music that most of you like/dislike that specific alter(s) hate/love?

❓ What is a question you still have about your disorder?

🚫 What is something about your disorder you don't think is talked about enough?

🗂️ (if you have a journal) Do you share a journal or do alters have their own journals?

🎼 What is a quote/lyric that really resonates with you?

🪵 What is a piece of advice you've received/something you've learned that has helped you and you'd like to share with other systems?

No more pluralkit

No more simplyplural

No more tupperbox

No more "alterhuman"

No more "traumagenic"

No more pluralpedia

No more #pluralgang

No more #syspunk or #pluralpunk

No more hazardqueer

Fuck right off.