#actually pdid

An example I’ve heard not applicable to me

Actually. Depending on how that occurs, it could very well be something that contributes to the formation of a CDD.

If it was “if I don’t wash the dishes, my parent beats me” then yeah.

If it was “if I don’t wash the dishes, my parent will lock me in a cupboard” then yeah.

If it was “if I don’t wash the dishes, my parent will yell and scream at me” then yeah.

If it was “if I don’t wash the dishes, I get silent treatment” then yeah

If these are all happening frequently, or other punishment methods I have not mentioned, and it’s something that’s inescapable then it can absolutely contribute. Just because it was “small” (ie not necessarily overtly abusive) doesn’t mean it can’t have contributed to causing a CDD.

Not to mention if these are happening just over washing some dishes, then there is likely other traumatic issues going on in the household.

Unpopular opinion: the transgender community is toxic and hostile as fuck for no reason

(Most of the things I'm about to mention (except one or two) were told to me before I considered myself trans-exclusionary, emphasising the fact that none of the things that happened to me had any valid reasoning behind them).

ANYWAYS

2026 fucking sucks cuz wdym I'll get sent rape and death threats for not wanting to interact with the transgender community (I have PTSD and I was sa'ed by my friend who literally IS transgender so obvs there are triggers there).

Y'ALL WILL NOT BELIEVE THE THINGS I'VE HEARD. YOU WILL NOT BELIEVE IT. I've been told my sexual assault wasn't real, and that all my sa'er did was probably look at me wrong. I've been called transphobic for saying I don't want to have anything to do with the community so that I don't get triggered. I've been told sex with a trans 'woman' would FIX ME. BY AN IRL PERSON. I'm a MINOR. I'M 16. 16 YEARS OLD. 16 YEARS OLD AND BEING TOLD HAVING A DERANGED MAN FUCK ME WILL FIX MY PTSD.

I've been told my male alters make me 'genderfluid.' I HAVE P-DID. Do you know what DID stands for? DISSOCIATIVE IDENTITY DISORDER. IDENTITY DISORDER. DISORDER. IT'S A FUCKING DISORDER. AND I'M BEING TOLD THAT HAVING ALTERS OF DIFFERENT GENDERS IS CONSIDERED AN IDENTITY. It's not a fucking identity it's a DISORDER. THEY'RE MY ALTERS. MY FUCKING ALTERS. I don't care what you want me to do, they're my alters, they hate you, I hate you too, FUCK OFF.

It happens with my alterhumanity too. I'm an alterhuman myself, I have nonhuman alters. Apparently someone can't be transphobic and a therian at the same time. Says fucking who? I've been told to "pick a lane," but what happened to your little rants about therianthropy not being a choice? So you're just going to betray the meaning of your whole community just because you had a tantrum when you discovered people have different opinions to you?

No more pluralkit

No more simplyplural

No more tupperbox

No more "alterhuman"

No more "traumagenic"

No more pluralpedia

No more #pluralgang

No more #syspunk or #pluralpunk

No more hazardqueer

Fuck right off.

Like we used to have a little (who is dormant now) and bro was not a child. Kian just decided to take the form of a child in Headspace, but everything else and Kian was an adult. Kian smoked, Kian had sexual interest and feelings, Kian was one of the most emotionally mature amoung us. Kian was definitely an adult, just a child form in head space.

Please bear in mind that the below features are a PLAN, and may not eventually be the same as this. This is a provisional idea, and may need tweaking.

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In our attempt to be accessible to as many as possible, we have planned an idea !!

When you create your account (or when the update comes out) you will have the ability to select one of two options

- I wish to use sharing features

- Never enable sharing features for this account

You may always switch to the latter, should you need to.

There will also be the ability to turn off sharing features instantly, but turning them back on will require a 24 hour wait time

If you select the latter and wish to use the sharing features later on, you will have to contact devs & go through a process to unlock them.

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I’ll not accept you for not remembering any trauma

I’ll force you to uncover traumatic memories

I’ll expect your system to function in one specific way

I’ll force you to talk about triggers

I’ll force you to tell me about all your trauma

And so much more that my brain has blanked on.

The only thing that I will expect of you is to go find a therapist or psychiatrist as soon as is feasible for you - and I don’t care if that means now, in a months time, when you move out of your current living situation, in a few years once you have some financial stability, whatever. I just want you to get help as soon as that opportunity comes.