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there is something fundamentally lonely about my asexuality. i am so hungry for intimacy and despite the love i feel for and receive from my friends it will never satisfy me the way i so deeply crave. it feels like there is a hole in my heart that only a lover can fill, and yet my asexuality bars me from ever entertaining the thought of having someone like that. i can only starve patiently, alone
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Sometimes, even though I know it’s not true, I can’t help but wonder if we’re all just gaslit into believing we want sex and finding things “sexy” or sexually attractive
You make one joke about being asexual and suddenly you’re misrepresenting the community and trying to speak for every asexual person ever
I really appreciate that Ace Week (formerly Asexual Awareness Week) is a thing. It's so very needed. I usually participate to celebrate/spread the word somehow.
But I'm so tired of the aphobes that inevitably turn up and spew their hate in the comments of Ace Week posts. I guess I live in a very accepting little bubble most of the time and then come Ace Week I'm reminded of how much hate there is out there.
Some of the things people say:
Asexual people just want to feel special. I.e. asexual people are just trenders.
Asexuality is not a real sexuality, these people just have a hormone imbalance or some sort of trauma.
Asexuality is gay erasure/homophobic. (Whut??)
Asexual people don't face the discrimination and persecution that LGBT people suffer. They don't need a flag or civil rights protection.
If you harbour any such acephobic opinions, or if you don't think aces belong in the LGBTQ community... either change your minds or get out. I don't want any aphobes or exclusionists in my space.
jump the fuck out of me I don't fucking care but I can't read mlm enha fanfics if its not jaywon or heejake OR sunki. It's just so weird to me and idk why ughhhhh just wanted to say my thoughts. 🧍♀️
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Sometimes i wonder if I'm faking being ace but then i remember that the closest thing i ever had to an erotic dream is one where all I did was kissing passionately and that's it.
And that reassures me
As an asexual person who doesn't have sex, I'm ambivalent as to whether I would describe myself as celibate. Because yes, I choose not to have sex, but for me it's the same kind of choice as choosing not to shove my hand in a dog turd. It wouldn't benefit me and I'd hate every second, so obviously I don't choose to do it.
For comparison: I'm vegetarian. I also dislike mayonnaise. My decision to be celibate is like my decision not to eat mayonnaise, whereas an allosexual person's choice to be celibate is like my decision not to eat meat. One of these is much more of an active choice, while the other is so instinctive and easy it barely feels like choosing.
I think one of the biggest reasons for my aceness is the fact that sexual attraction involves another human
what I mean is like
if the other person was more like a toy
and I don’t mean that in some “I want another human to be my toy” way
what I mean is like if there were no consequences
like imagining having sex with a fictional character has no consequences
it’d be more like an execution of said fantasy
an execution of the idea in the real world but still isn’t as real as a human
but without this “this is another real human and time goes on with a causality of every event meaning we’ve actually touched each other there and it’s still the same body parts that existed before and will exist after it”
yk what I’m sayin
