#ace of pentacles

The Chariot, Ace of Pentacles, 2 of Cups

You are waaaayyyy too focused on love.

Finding love. Obsessing over relationships. Wondering when you'll meet "the one." You're pouring so much time, energy, and emotion into the idea of love that you're neglecting the overall quality of your life.

Where is that same energy for your finances? Your stability? Your home? Your health? Your mental and emotional wellbeing? Your future?

Right now, almost all of your effort is going toward love, love, love, while the foundation of your own life isn't getting the attention it deserves. You lack balance. If you keep making your love life your entire focus, your future could end up suffering because of it.

This is why you suck.

Not because you want love, but because you're neglecting yourself in the process. You're sacrificing your health, your stability, and your personal growth for an idea of love. Instead of building a life that genuinely fulfills you, you're waiting for a partner to do that job. You're forgetting that love can come from so many places, not just a romantic relationship.

It's time to get clear about you and your future. Make a plan that has nothing to do with a partner or a future spouse. Build financial security. Create stability. Invest in your health. Build a life you're proud of whether someone joins it or not.

Here's the reality: just because we deeply desire something doesn't mean it's guaranteed to happen in this lifetime. That doesn't mean you'll never find love. This is a collective reading, and many of you absolutely will. But what if you don't? Or what if you do meet someone and, years later, it doesn't work out?

If you've built your entire identity around finding love, you'll be left with deep regret that you didn't also build a fulfilling life for yourself.

And even if you do find an amazing partner, you don't want your entire world to revolve around them. Invest in yourself. Invest in self love. Invest in your friendships, your family, your hobbies, your passions, your career, your purpose, your physical and mental health, your spiritual growth, your community, and your dreams.

Become your first love. Treat yourself the way you hope a future partner will treat you. Build a life that feels full before anyone else enters it.

And if love does come, don't stop choosing yourself!

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The Fool, 9 of Wands, 8 of Swords

You are way too trusting.

You trust the wrong people too easily, or you keep people in your life simply because you've always known them, even though they continue to hurt you in the long run.

You have a very pure heart. That isn't a weakness, but not everyone deserves access to it. Some people are drawn to your light for the wrong reasons. Whether it's jealousy, insecurity, or their own unresolved pain, some people will try to dim your spirit instead of doing the work to heal themselves.

You let other people's words, opinions, and actions affect you far more than they should. They reach you through your mind and your emotions because you give them that access. It's time to take your power back. Become more in control of your thoughts and emotions so other people's negativity doesn't have the ability to shake your foundation.

You also tend to rush into connections. You're ready to give your whole heart before someone has earned it. You become attached too quickly instead of being patient and allowing people to reveal who they truly are. Love without discernment will always leave you vulnerable.

You may also be feeling incredibly lonely right now, and because of that, you're more likely to overlook red flags just to have someone around. But loneliness should never be the reason you lower your standards.

There is a shift waiting for you. It could be a move, a new community, healthier relationships, or an entirely new chapter of your life. But that shift can't fully happen until you finally see yourself for how precious you really are.

Because if you truly recognized your worth, you would have naturally distanced yourself from toxic family members, unhealthy friendships, draining lovers, and communities that made you feel small. You would have realized you deserve relationships that pour into you, not ones that constantly take from you.

You want to live freely. You want to love openly and deeply. Don't lose that part of yourself. The goal isn't to become cold or guarded. The goal is to become discerning. Let people earn access to your heart instead of handing it over immediately.

There will come a time when you're meant to put yourself back out into the world, make new connections, and build meaningful relationships. But first, you need to see yourself the way your soul deserves to be seen. Once you do, everything begins to shift naturally.

Don't rush the process, or you'll find yourself repeating the same emotional and mental cycles.

Keep your loving nature. Don't regret loving people or being genuine with them. Those experiences don't mean your heart was the problem. They simply taught you that your heart deserves better protection.

Stop staying in connections that continuously hurt you. Stop allowing people's words to define your worth. Remove yourself from environments that drain your spirit, protect your peace, and keep moving forward.

You might be self harming through the people you choose to keep around you.

And that's why you suck.

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4 of Wands, 9 of Swords, 2 of Pentacles, 5 of Pentacles

You spend way too much time in your head.

You're constantly worrying about your problems, your finances, how unfair your life is, and everything that's going wrong. But while you're thinking about changing your life, you're not actually taking enough action to change it.

You have so many ideas. You dream, you plan, you imagine different futures, but you keep going back and forth until you end up doing nothing. At some point, overthinking becomes another form of procrastination.

You don't even realize that your life often feels worse in your mind than it does in reality. Your outer circumstances may be difficult, but the stories you're telling yourself are making the suffering even heavier.

It's time to get out of victim mode and step into an empowered mindset.

Don't give up on creating the life you desire, deserve, and long for because it is possible. Spirit is showing you a way forward, but your negative thinking is clouding your ability to see it. There are actions you can take. There are opportunities you're overlooking because you're so focused on what's wrong.

Ask yourself: What do I hate about my current life? What am I struggling with?

Make a list.

Then next to each problem, write down one small or big action you can take to improve it. You don't have to solve everything today, but you do have to start somewhere.

The Universe can guide you, but it can't take the steps for you.

Replace hopelessness with action.

For example, instead of saying, "I hate that I have no money," ask yourself, "What's one thing I can do today?" Maybe you start a faceless content channel. Maybe you apply for a remote job or pick up a part time job. Maybe you learn a new skill that increases your income. There are options, but they only become real once you act on them.

I also feel like you've had an idea sitting in the back of your mind for a long time. You've been thinking about it, imagining it, maybe even talking yourself out of it. This is your confirmation to stop waiting and start.

You have to start somewhere.

I promise you, your current situation does not have to be your permanent reality. But if nothing changes, nothing changes.

Stop waiting for motivation.

Take the first step.

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