#abrainwashedmel

every day receiving message after message telling me to stop pretending i am smart and let myself be the dumb thing i am.

What do I mean when I say active?

Kink is supposed to be fun, whether it is simply for a scene or a long-term dynamic.... particularly for a long-term dynamic. Discounting any spectators, every party involved should be an active participant in some way or another.

Now, it is remarkably easy to be active as the brainwasher. But what if you're the brainwashed? One of my pet peeves is toying with a subject online and every response they have to me is a simple key smash. The occasional ones are cute, it does indeed show their brains short-circuiting. But there are only so many teases and flirtations the tist can make back. After a while, the well simply runs dry.

This doesn't mean you have to try to be the best subject, have the best reactions, make the hottest sounds, and other such nonsense. It just falls back on the age old skill of ✨ communication ✨ with the involved parties.

Spending an evening on someone's lap, nuzzling them and whining for their affection.

Their hands idly running over my body, down my arms and back up, occasionally tapping on my forehead once, pausing for a moment, and then again to bring me back up.

All i can focus on is them: their voice, their cock, their control, both passive and active.

That's why we're working on you, darling.

I know that you desperately want to please me, and you do such a wonderful job. You listen to my words, you obey unquestioningly, you try your hardest to think of new ways to make me happy.

But we can do better, can't we?

You endure so much stress in the desire to be good, to be the best. I just want to take that stress away from you, sweetheart.

You don't need to look so sceptical. You trust me, right?

Mhmm, that's what I thought.

Now, you might notice some changes in future. It doesn't matter if you do. They'll happen anyway. All those silly little insecurities that haunt your mind will just fade away. The capacity to make independent decisions will disappear - and as such, you won't ever overthink on whether you're making the right choice for you. No more worrying, no more panicking.

See? I only want to see you happy.

Once those are gone, we can work on your personality some more. I love you, but sometimes I think you're happier when you're ditzy. You smile widest when you have very little inside that cute head of yours. So it's for the best to make sure that you enjoy hobbies that don't require your dumb brain to struggle to think too hard.

Don't be silly, hun. You'll still keep some of your brain. I still want you to be able to make your way around the house for all of your chores, like normal.

I think we'll make sure that you doll yourself up more often. You look so adorable in dresses and I know you feel your best wearing them. Can't you imagine that? Looking in a mirror and seeing the most gorgeous plaything you can be?

Darling, that's not how you nod your head.

There we go, that's better.

I know you love me, and you love it when I guide you to the truths we both know. You know that this is best for you. Soon enough, you'll look into a mirror and only find your most raw, and best, self staring back.

It's okay if you don't recognise yourself when that happens.