#abandonmentissues

You are like my toxic ex boyfriend

Yeah, I think you’re just like Kameron.

No, you never abused me physically.

You never raped me.

But I asked you for a relationship,

and you got mad, you started to trip.

We were talking about kissing on the lips,

and now I’m so confused.

You tell me one thing,

then tell me I was warned,

that I knew this would sting.

Then why were you so adamant

about us seeing each other in the spring?

You said you wanted to touch my body,

hear my moans like an artist sings.

Whenever I’d leave, you’d panic,

but you just like attention.

Maybe you should go to another reality,

another dimension,

so I can warn other girls

about guys like you,

maybe even provide prevention.

You love when other people

don’t give you the time of day.

For some reason you love the chase.

But honey, nothing is better

than someone loyal,

someone you don’t have to chase into outer space

just to feel their embrace.

You talk about mindset

and being one with yourself spiritually,

but you have insatiable desires.

You love corruption

like the devil.

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