i also think of the tommy of it all in 7x4 and 7x5 how surprised eddie was to find out about buck and tommy as if the prior episode didn’t show how tommy wanted eddie but now it’s if they go on with this plot how do you get to the point of eddie figuring it out unless directly said
I’d written up a whole answer and put my phone down before hitting post and lost it 😭 Thank fuck your ask was still there.
ANYWAY. Yes, that’s also my question. I do think that Eddie isn’t oblivious about being attractive to men: he picks up on Father Brian flirting with him and notices that the husband of Buck’s trio is making eyes at him, so I wouldn’t call him a lost cause. Considering Tommy was his friend first and foremost (or, at least, tried to woo him doing friend activities), I think he’s oblivious to that exactly—the evolution from friendship to romance and physical attraction. That specifically is the problem with him and Buck. Eddie loves Buck so much and he’d do anything for him. He would do a lot for any of his friends obviously, but Buck is special, because he’s his very best friend.
The way I’d suspect he’d realise is, well, being confronted by the bigger picture. Either facilitated by Hen, or perhaps (god willing) a boyfriend who explains Buck is an obstacle in the development of their relationship, or by Buck confessing to him, or perhaps through himself and his own reflection on their relationship as he (through Christopher growing up) finds more time for himself. Maybe even the latter in tandem with Theo being taken in by next of kin after he and Buck and Chris created a little family with the little boy in spite of the temporary nature of fostering. I don’t know.
However it’ll go, I think Tim Minear has committed himself to Buddie at this point. There are still ways out (so I fully understand the mistrust and hesitancy), but it’s less abstract than it’s been in the past, which is more than I’d expect from a drama procedural. They’ll find some fun, dramatic, exciting way to drag him out of the closet and (eventually) into Buck’s arms, I’m sure :)