#4thhouse

Hello everyone! Here are some observations, please don't take them too seriously as they are my observations and not facts! 💞 I hope you have fun reading them. 🩷

Princess Diana was a libra rising. I am not going to discuss this in any way, but she screams libra rising. She was one of the most influential people when it comes to fashion, even people calling her the most influential fashion icon of all time.

Her grace, charm and sweetness, her love of dancing, her need for a stable and loving home (moon in the 4th house). Her cold and unstable childhood and the divorce of her parents that traumatized her for life (Capricorn IC, Saturn in the 4th house).

Sun in the 5th house folks love being photographed. They really love standing in front of a camera, doing lots and lots of photo shoots. They love portraying themselves and they love being the Center of attention. They're not shy or insecure about loving the spotlight.

Sun trine Ascendant need the admiration and approval of others. It makes a persons chart even more extroverted, they need attention like the air they breathe. For me, they are too braggy, almost snobbish because of their achievements. They are not the ones to be quiet about their life's, they will rub just anything under your nose if it makes them look good.

I can with almost 100% certainty spot a Cancer Moon. They have this half moon face, not as squishy and loveable like cancer risings have it. Their faces are more boney, more serious and almost hard. They do have big teeth though and big and wide smiles. They are always smiling on photographs.

Venus in Sagittarius will put money aside to travel the world, especially with a loved one or their significant other. They have no problem being away for longer for example to do a trip around the world for months.

Sister signs do have a magnetic effect on each other. I always see Leo's and Aquarius' in friendships, and also a lot of Scorpio and Taurus friendships. The sister sign doesn't have to be only the sun, but also involves the other planets and the moon.

Fixed signs attract each other a LOT! Especially Aquarius & Scorpio, Aquarius & Leo, Taurus & Scorpio, Taurus & Leo, Leo & Scorpio. It's like a moth to a flame, they need each others stability and fixed signs are more alike than most people think.

Libra Venus is the sweetest lover you could ever wish for. They'll buy you your favorite treats, always have flowers around for you and will always make sure you're alright and well fed. 🥺

Even though I am a Gemini Moon myself, I cannot stand other Gemini moons. They are somewhat self centered with a self-confidence that is absolutely not justified. They are the ones who are convinced they are the epitome of wisdom and knowledge. And Geminis are not the ones to do a lot of research, so most of their statements and opinions are false or not 100% correct. And it bothers me so much! 🙄

Venus, often celebrated for its qualities of love, beauty, and harmony, also has a shadow side that can manifest in various ways, depending on the house it resides in. Imagine Venus not just as the planet of love but also as a complex character with its virtues and vices, navigating through the neighborhoods of the zodiac.

✨1st House: The Mask of Vanity✨

When Venus sits in the 1st House, it's like wearing a mask of charm and attractiveness. However, this placement can lead to an obsession with personal appearance and a compulsion to be liked, often at the expense of genuine self-expression. People with this placement might struggle with superficiality, using their charm as a shield to hide their true selves.

✨2nd House: The Hoarder of Pleasures✨

In the 2nd House, Venus's dark side turns to materialism. Here, the love for beauty and comfort can morph into an unquenchable thirst for possessions and luxury, leading to greed or excessive indulgence in sensory pleasures, making it hard to understand the true value of things beyond their price tags.

✨3rd House: The Sweet Talker✨

Venus in the 3rd House can weave words like a spell, but this gift might be used manipulatively. The desire for social harmony can become a fear of confrontation, leading to dishonesty or saying what others want to hear instead of the truth. Relationships may suffer from a lack of depth due to an avoidance of uncomfortable discussions.

✨4th House: The Homebound Heart✨

In the 4th House, Venus's shadow shows in the form of clinging to comfort and familiarity, leading to resistance against change and growth. Emotional security might be sought in possessions or the home environment, creating a bubble that's hard to leave for the fear of losing stability.

✨5th House: The Drama Lover✨

Venus in the 5th House loves romance and creativity but can get caught up in the drama of love, treating relationships like a stage for personal amusement. This can lead to superficial connections or a chase for eternal honeymoon phases, avoiding the reality of deeper, more mature partnerships.

✨6th House: The People Pleaser✨

Here, Venus's need for approval manifests in the workplace or daily routines, leading to over-accommodating behaviors. A desire to be liked by peers and superiors can result in neglecting one's own needs or values, causing burnout or resentment in the long run.

✨7th House: The Co-dependent✨

In the 7th House, Venus's dark side is in its fear of being alone, leading to co-dependency in relationships. There's a risk of losing one's identity in the quest for harmony and partnership, with a tendency to compromise too much or stay in unsatisfying relationships for the sake of peace.

✨8th House: The Obsessor✨

Venus in the 8th House can bring intense relationships, but with a potential for possessiveness or jealousy. The desire for deep connections may turn into an obsession, where love is confused with control, leading to toxic dynamics that are hard to escape.

✨9th House: The Eternal Optimist✨

While optimism is generally positive, Venus in the 9th House can lead to unrealistic expectations, especially in love and beliefs. There's a tendency to idolize partners or philosophies without acknowledging their flaws, which can lead to disappointment when reality checks in.

✨10th House: The Status Seeker✨

In the 10th House, Venus's influence can focus too much on social status and success, valuing relationships based on how they enhance personal reputation or career. Genuine connections might be sacrificed for the sake of ambition, leading to a sense of emptiness despite outward achievements.

✨11th House: The Fair-weather Friend✨

Venus in the 11th House may love to be surrounded by friends, but there's a risk of superficiality, where connections are maintained only when they are beneficial or enjoyable. This placement can struggle with commitment to deeper, less convenient friendships.

✨12th House: The Secret Lover✨

Lastly, in the 12th House, Venus hides in the realm of secrets and sacrifices. Love may be expressed through suffering or martyrdom, leading to unrequited loves or relationships that exist more in fantasy than reality. There's a danger of losing oneself in illusions, avoiding the practical side of love.

xox astro ash ❤️‍🔥

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So, in my Solar Return, Uranus was in my 4th house, and guess what? My family and I moved out. 🏠💥 But here’s the twist—Uranus was also squaring Saturn in my 2nd house, and that’s when things got... complicated. The move led to stress due to financial instability, and the square intensified the tension between my desire for stability and the instability caused by the move.

But that’s not all—Uranus was also in my 10th house in a different year, and it shook up my career. I ended up switching jobs three times in one year, all because of external factors like layoffs, restructures, and shifts in my work environment. Uranus in the 10th house tends to push you to leave a career that no longer aligns with you or a role that’s too rigid. Those sudden changes? It was just Uranus doing its thing—helping me step into something more in line with who I am.

It’s wild how astrology can literally map out moments like this. It’s not just theory—it’s real life. 💸

Moon in the 1st house

You are rather sensitive to your outer environment, this is why you have the tendency to close off sometimes, as it’s easier to do so rather than be vulnerable. However, vulnerability is your greatest asset. You are empathetic and loyal and would make a great loving partner/parent. You are conscious of the connection between emotions and body and sometimes care about the way you appear, way too much. Whenever you feel stuck, expressing your emotions in an assertive way, speaking up on how you feel or through your appearance is your way of healing. Exercising helps your release emotions. Heal yourself by opening up about how you feel.

Moon in the 2nd house

Your emotional well-being comes from feeling secure and safe on a daily basis. Ways in which you feel safe are having a stable job, gaining money, saving money, investing in valuable things, or working on your self-worth. However, sometimes your self-worth can be connected to your material environment too much. This is why it’s important for you to not get too attached to things, your house, possessions, your job, or money, but rather let them come and go. Life will give you ups and downs in this area to teach you to feel your emotions from within, rather than through an outer source. You are likely going to gain money through the things you are passionate about.

Moon in the 3rd house

You are curious, observant, and communicative, but sometimes can also be shy. Your mood influences how open you are to those around you. School might have been an impactful period in your life on which you look back with nostalgia, both good and bad. You feel most safe in your hometown or the places you are familiar with and you might have a close connection with your siblings/early friendships. You get easily discouraged by words, so it’s important for others to be gentle and for you to not let what other people think to influence your mood. You are highly intuitive and intelligent, so trust what you feel rather than what you believe in order to find inner healing.

Moon in the 4th house

Your home environment is very important. Emotional healing happens when you have a safe space to go to. You might be into decorating your home or needing to feel cozy at home in order to be able to process your emotions. The relationship with your mom might have been prominent and you might want to have children in the future or would be a great parent. Growing up, emotions were expressed and sometimes you felt responsible for them, so you don’t open up easily, unless you feel comfortable. Healing comes from being empathetic with yourself and others, while still setting boundaries and having time alone. Taking time to pamper yourself is highly important.

Moon in the 5th house

You like to express your emotions through your hobbies, so you might be really talented or working on cultivating a talent you resonate with. You fall in love easily and you also easily get hurt, but might not show it, because you like playing it cool. There is the potential for you to have more than one child. You might sometimes be a little bit dramatic and you like to share the emotional rollercoasters you are experiencing, as it helps you feel understood. Emotional healing happens when you allow yourself to just enjoy the present moment and be your child-like, goofy self, and also when you put the time into your passions, rather than in others.

Moon in the 6th house

You are someone who likes to express their emotions on a daily basis. So, you like to react to things on the spot and come up with practical solutions. Your routine needs to be thought out, otherwise your emotions are going to be all over the place, as there is a high connection between your lifestyle and overall health and your emotional wellbeing. You might love pets and they help you get balanced emotionally. You are sometimes scared to make mistakes and can get too caught up in how your lifestyle is influencing your life. Your working environment needs to have some type of order. Healing happens when you allow yourself to make mistakes and accept your routine cannot always be perfect.

Moon in the 7th house

You are someone that finds it harder to accept their emotions, but whenever you get close to people or when you are dating someone, you are able to open up more and show your vulnerabilities. You are scared that you won’t be accepted for who you are deep down, so you don’t always express your feelings right away. Collaborating with someone, getting married, or building close relationships helps you discover yourself. You are actually romantic and ready to be there for others when in need. Healing happens when you feel your emotions and understand how people are a mirror to you. How can you express your feelings?

Moon in the 8th house

You are a very strong person and might have been through a lot emotionally. You have developed this ability to adapt during hard times and keep your struggles to yourself. You might be inclined towards spirituality. When in close partnerships, you open up more, but few people see the sensitive side of you. You feel the weight of the world often and sometimes you might bottle up your emotions for so long, that you end up exploding after a while. You might not share personal information unless you already built an emotional connection with someone. Think about it, though, how can you build an emotional connection with someone you haven’t shared anything with?

Moon in the 9th house

You might never feel at home anywhere, other than in the moment when you are on the go. You are a nomad at the soul, even if you do travel or not. Traveling, though, and meeting new cultures is your way of emotional healing. Learning about different topics of interest or languages is also a way for you to emotionally connect to others and to yourself. Your beliefs are the most valuable thing to you and you get close to those that share the same thinking. However, you sometimes run away from emotions and like to keep things rather light. Sometimes you need to stop and allow yourself to feel the darker things as well, as a way to gain more energy for your next adventure.

Moon in the 10th house

You are really sensitive to your outer environment, especially when it comes to your career. You need to be working in a space in which you feel included and appreciated and the relationship with your boss matters a lot to you. When you learn how to set boundaries and mind your own goals, rather than the relationships you built on the way or comparing yourself to others’ success, that’s when you will be able to follow your heart and be noticed. You are made to make a change through empathy and passion for the work you put in. Success is on its way if you express the way you feel, especially your ideas, rather than holding them inside.

Moon in the 11th house

You are a rebel at heart, there might not have been a lot of emotional closeness while growing up, so this is why you like calling your friends your home. Your friendships are really important to you and building or getting yourself in a community that shares the same interests as you is what would help you heal. Emotional expression for you is rather detached and focused on solutions. The challenge here is to not let yourself be influenced by what others think and be your authentic self. Whenever you follow your own calling, you succeed and end up being noticed by people that matter.

Moon in the 12th house

SOUTH NODE IN THE 4TH HOUSE

I saw this video come on my timeline and I thought it was so funny considering these two* have their south node in the 4th house.

South node in the 4th can cause issues in the home. In this lifetime, you are meant to find your “home” in the public. There is no long lasting peace at home. There are articles that suggest in the past life, you sacrificed your gifts to cater to the home life. Therefore in this life, you will not receive the happy home you desire until you have completed your karma. For Libra Risings, it seems with a Capricorn 4th house that they have to be mature or grow up at an early age. They are the child that holds their parents heavy expectations. The south node will not grant you peace in the home until your karma is fulfilled. Capricorn in the 4th blesses you with the foresight to understand responsibility at an early age and sometimes you may even understand/view your parents burdens/responsibilities as a young child.

I too have this placement and I am a libra rising. By my 6th birthday, I had already made my first 100 dollars by saving in my piggy bank (very Saturn in Taurus of me). I knew of my parents financial struggles through overhearing and I knew that did not want to ever struggle with money. I was also a very mature child, naturally gifted with intelligence. My father always wanted a girl and placed very heavy expectations on me to succeed although I had an older sibling. He placed me in several hobbies as a child (I could never stay home for too long, he felt I had to go out and do something when I had free time). I was a high achiever and often his high expectations caused me to have extremely high expectations for myself. I remember in the third grade, I cried and stayed in bed for hours because I received B’s instead of A’s and thought I was a failure.

4th house South nodes, feel uncomfortable being in the spotlight. This is their past life clinging to privacy and peace. But unfortunately, you must shine in the spotlight. The north node will always bring you to the forefront. Depending on what planet is in the 10th will showcase what about you will be brought to the spotlight. Being naturally you, will cause attention. Do not shy away. Your talents are meant to be out there.

The video also speaks to competition/tension in the home with both artists siblings. I can also relate to this. Maybe I will speak on that at a later time when I’m comfortable.

Anyone with this placement? Feel free to share your experience. 🫂 hugs 🫂

Synastry is fusion of energy of two people. The most searched is synastry of couples or sexual chemistry synastry, although it may be applicable to any relationship - business, family or friendship. Here, we’re going to discuss about love affinity synastry based on experience, personal and research over of 150 people (so far).

The most common question in synastry is “HOW IT FEELS... to be planet/angle/house person” and there is a big reason WHY is asked. Since energy is dynamic force and has changeable modality, it absorbs and creates... it is not often too easy to catch it’s true nature described in one synastry. 

We can blame lack of knowledge (astrological) and taking the aspect interpretation for granted. In life all it matters is FLOW. This is a natural order. We can try to understand it not only by mind, but with heart - soul/inner being/gut..whatever. 

That’s why many  astrolovers  don’t understand why, for example,  VENUS 0 MARS (conjunction) doesn’t work as described in many astrological sources, why you don’t feel that intense consuming passion, wild urge that wet your panties, or at least it’s not mutual.

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Boring part for lazy astrolovers but important 

1. - To know the nature or entity of synastry it is important to know yourself. Be assured that EVERY SINGLE aspect in your natal chart - like it or not - you will FEEL in some point of life.  So, our Natal chart is not just screenshot of transit, of energy of the moment or just your life events. It is hermetic principle in it’s whole existence. AS ABOVE - SO BELOW. AS WITHIN SO WITHOUT. So, having in mind that we all contain microcosmos inside of us, the outside world is our reflection. 

2. - know yourself and do it daily. With consciousness, love and acceptance. We change and evolve. 

3. Having in natal chart any notorious aspect as Venus square Saturn, Mars opposition Saturn, Moon square Mercury it is not a same thing if you operate on mundane, primitive level or you have some degree of self consciousness and FEEL the world within and out yourself.

This energy still exists but in different manner.  And I’ll write about that in another topic. 

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Back to the synastry and how someone is feeling having some placement triggered by other’s energy:

1.Basic rule - PLANET has it’s own vibe and being in specific house in Natal chart - it has extra flavor. When that planet jumps into someone’s house it brings that energy mixed with house person energy.

2. CHART ruler extremely important. It must have connection with your essential planets and points in your own chart. 

3. House angles and their rulers too.

4. TRANSITS are triggers. Doesn’t matter if you have perfect synastry if timing is not right.

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EXAMPLE 1:

Someone’s Mars in Gemini in 5th house - player, joyful, easy to arouse person becomes guest in your 6th house (health, duty, job, bypass between fun 5th and marriage/contract/open enemies 7th house), you have a situation:

-house person feels sex vibe from that person, it’s natural expression and wants that energy, but also wants to direct that energy into something with purpose- 6th house ruled by Virgo. Everything must have purpose. IT’s not a consciousness THING, it is our gravity and this is what pulls planet energy out.

- Mars person gets transformed into 6th house. It is still playful, but in manner to be someone that helps you to get in shape, takes genuine care of your health, mental and psychical. This Mars wants you to become better, to improve you. Still, there is some kind of attraction, because he is naturaly in tune with erotic, but he doesn’t accept you in raw manner as he would in 1st or 8th house - here - HE SHAPES YOU. It can be so exciting.

What would be product of that energy exchange depends of other inter aspects and condition of house ruler, in this case Mercury.

EXAMPLE 2:

If you want sexy Mars Venus conjunction it is not enough to just have it in intense Scorpio or sensual Taurus, or in 8th house. I have couple of examples where I couldn’t feel that connection, except in one case:

- His natal Mars in Virgo is in 12th house with Jupiter and NN and all that conjuncts my Venus in my 8th house. So my Venus (being in his deep 12th house) was instantly from the 1st look upon his face mesmerized.  His Venus in conjunct with my ASC (so we both feel nice in each others presence)

Here 8th Venus in conjunction with Mars becomes catcher, or pursuer...but in Virgo terms.. subtle :D Mars is passive, observant. Even the energy is strong and evident - it takes a stroke from Above to move two Earths!

Other guy had Mars in my 8th house which is his chart ruler and he is deeply moved by Venus.  Since my Venus is guest on his 6th house cusp, it’s friendly but here Virgo being amplified - not so turned on. 

If Venus is afflicted it may bring obsession, moodiness, dependency, lack of selfesteem or Venusian characteristics disorted. 

EXAMPLE 3:

. Having someone’s luminary (Sun, Moon) in your 4th house and (or) your 12th house - you will always have some deep connection with that person and forgive him/her more than you would for someone else.