The 4HM have been discussing a few things and I thought Iād kinda clarify what weāve been talking about:Ā
1. We arenāt going to add members to our group chat. Period. The four of us got super tight-knit super fast and we donāt wanna throw off our dynamic by adding another person.Ā
We were considering possiblyĀ adding to the group until Dot started receivingĀ nasty messages. Thereās no way for us to tell if the person sending the anons is the person who wants to get into the group. And there is no way in hell Iām going to let somebody who had the audacity to call her a cunt anywhere near us.
2. Just because we arenāt adding another person doesnāt mean that we donāt love and appreciate everybody else weāve come to know on here!Ā Youāre welcome to come and talk to us and message with us! But we wonāt be adding to the group text!Ā
3. You wouldnāt go up to a group of complete strangers and butt into their conversations. So maybe donāt do it online either. I understand that itās great to have a friendship online! But it really makes the four of us uncomfortable when people start butting in on our inside jokes... I donāt know. It just makes us all uncomfortable.Ā
4. The whole reason we started sending each other weird requests was to make fun of the REAL weird requests we have all gotten. And itās getting harder and harder to tell which ones are real requests and which ones are just jokes.Ā
By all means, get in on the fun, send us jokes and silly things! But weāre just kinda done with the weird requests for now.Ā
We love and appreciate all of you very much! And I hate howĀ āyou canāt sit with usā this sounds, but weāre all kind of uncomfortable and want to make sure that everybody is on the same page!