My hair is dry and a little brittle at the back/middle of my head and lacks curl definition. Anyone got any curly hair tips?🥰 please and thank you!

Black people often have a habit of complaining about their hair type, it's completely understandable though, kinky curly hair is an absolute hassle and feels like your in a boxing ring trying to get your hair to behave. However, why don't we ever talk about our kinky hair in a good light? Like my bitch can defy gravity and has the ability to copy any hairstyle, straight, curly, etc! Who else is going it like kinky curly hair and making us look beyond beautiful by puffing up like a cloud and making us look like the God and Goddess we are? Kinky curly hair is actually out here making us look like pieces of heaven.