#108sims

Thanks so much for this ask! I've been hanging on to it for a while, so sorry for the delay. I realize that I haven't done one of these for Wade 'Dub' Banks since he was a child (Tumblr link). Let's see how much he's changed...

Dub has over 13 traits earned by gameplay and aspiration rewards. Notable ones include a great kisser, incredibly friendly, and cold acclimation (but you'd never guess the last one from how much he complains about cold weather).

Dub never outgrew the squeamish trait. (Let's wish him luck when it's time to change diapers.)

Dub doesn't watch much TV, but when he does, it'll almost always be a fantasy or action movie.

One of Dub's biggest regrets is welcoming Maia's cat, Luna, to the household. But he loves Maia, so he reluctantly puts up with the cat.

Dub is actively planning a few big surprises for Maia involving their future together.

Thank you! I was definitely very happy with how these latest pics turned out.

Weather - What do you love most? 

Hmmm. I’m going to say being alive and being able to perceive reality, because that’s why I get to enjoy all the things and people that I love. :)

Friendship Bracelet - What does friendship mean to you? 

Supporting each other and having fun and talking about whatever without fear of shaming or judgement or anger over little things and comforting each other and telling each other that sometimes brains are silly and wrong and really we are okay and other people really do like us and want us around. Also respecting each other’s boundaries and autonomy and personhood, and never putting each other down.

Good healthy friendship is important to me, after an emotionally abusive friendship years ago. I learned a lot from that. Also learning a lot from my marriage, which is a very healthy and long term friendship. :) 

Succulent - What are you looking forward to?

Eating the brownies that the spousal person made while we watch some more Twenty Again or Second 20s and I think maybe some other alternate names, a South Korean drama on Netflix. It’s so sweet and it always ends on a cliffhanger so I’m interested to see what happens next. 

Also I just have to make it one more week and then I am off work for a week, and I am hoping that maybe I can write some if the ear isn’t too bad. And my mother and brother are coming to visit and I want to show them all the cool big city stuff, since I grew up in a small town and my mother still lives there. :)

Thank you! Sending it right back at you! ♥