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I said I wasn't gonna be as mean but there are certain things I've lost my patience with. No.

And people lash out when reminded of this, not just because they can't handle being wrong about how much was lost in translation or with tunnel vision. I'm suggesting it's something more sinister.

"But it was a compliment to you!" It's still about epistemology, their own cultural knowledge and their agency, you don't have to diminish theirs to elevate mine you weirdo.

You know how sometimes a character is just so fucked up and tragic in such a speciffic way that just seeing them makes you go "ohhhh noooo it's them. oh my god" and then proceed to Think Too Hard

And then you know how sometimes there's another character who's no better and they have a dynamic that just really makes the psychic damage they both deal bigger than the sum of its parts? And it just seems to never end too because they just keep bouncing off of eachother and dealing area damage. Whether it's in the text or in your mind afterwards. It really can happen to any dynamic, they could be lovers, family, friends, something, it can exist both in more healthy and more toxic dynamics just as well

The Future of Modern Home Aesthetics.

I don't know lol