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considering completely giving up on the impossible respectability politics of capitalist modes of production and just having sloppy sex til I die

i forgot my password again but i’m still here thriving, unemployed, napping during the day and getting fucked at odd hours. 👌🏾

considering completely giving up on the impossible respectability politics of capitalist modes of production and just having sloppy sex til I die

update: i did it.

do y’all even realize how much mainstream ‘lesbian’ porn is curated for the male gaze??? like hello, how can you not see how painfully obvious it is that these women aren’t actually interested in other women? of course not all mainstream wlw porn is like this, there are always exceptions, but as a woman who loves women I see this shit all over the internet… it’s the kind of thing that only wlw are able to recognize. think about how the *vast* majority of mainstream ‘lesbian’ porn is extremely hardcore and kinky (it should go without saying that there is nothing wrong with that kind of sex between fully consenting adults). it allows no room for authentic, romantic wlw porn. consider how so much ‘lesbian’ porn ends up somehow including a dick… porn titled and filed under the category ‘lesbian’ but it’s really just women showing off to get a man off… it’s fetishizing and hypersexualizing wlw to the point that a lot of women that are not sexually attracted to other women are clearly being forced/coerced into doing so-called ‘lesbian’ scenes bc it’s profitable. it’s fucking sad. there is no room for authentic wlw porn (even if that includes kink) because all this shit is made for dudes who sit in their rooms jerking off to hub sites/never pay for porn/‘love’ lesbians but hate the rest of the LGBTQ+ community. this is why independent porn curators like @fourchambers and every other incredible, strong, talented sex worker are so important right now. especially in the wake of FOSTA/SESTA.

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