(they/them)

if you're teaching someone something like the stoplight system you can make it fun and sexy. explain the premise. green=go, yellow=slow down/can’t take any more of that right now, red=full stop. start touching them. whisper "what's your color?" in their ear. they're going to say green. start groping them. what's your color? pinch their nipples. what's your color? bite their neck. what's your color? start slapping their ass. what's your color? go harder. what's your color? they're gunna become a babbling mess eventually. they're only going to get rewarded when they answer your question, though. if they stop responding to "what's your color?" then stop until they do. it's a silly sexy way to build trust with someone and get them comfortable with safewording.

whatever the femme says goes

i want to see more fat people in rope literally always. fat rope bunnies i love you i hope you’re having a good day you’re carrying this fucking website

Practicing self care (charging your sex toys) is important!

love tumblr but sometimes wonder if lesbians here even see butches as people the way they're so commodified as sex objects and rarities you want to catch... truly i don't know how butches deal with the excess of expectations people have of them

A five hour make out session would definitely fix me rn

You are never too talkative for someone who likes to hear you, you are never too annoying for someone who find your little actions cute, you are never too depressed for someone who knows what you went through, You are never too late for someone who awaits to see you all day, you are never too far for someone who loves you...

Butch bicep. Butch back. Butch thighs. Butch anything and I'm drooling.

everyone talks about subs with praise kinks but god do i love a dom(me) who preens at the slightest praise. like yes you fuck me so well and i get so wet for you and I can’t help but whine whenever you touch me. you are just so so so perfect for me and i can’t believe you’re mine.

I love that studs exist :)