Hoe4Hoe

Many of us are guilty of prematurely giving soulmate credentials to people in order to speed up the relationship process. However, relationships require a stable foundation submerged in a vehicle of vulnerability and an abundance of mutual trust and respect. Rushing a situation can sometimes force you to maximize someone’s potential when they in fact are the complete opposite of the kind of partner you need. Embellishing the traits of your possible partner will eventually lead to disappointment once its clear that the version of them you contrived doesn’t actually exist.

translation: y'all be in so much of a hurry to say you with somebody, you don’t know WHO you with cus you don’t know shit about them.

Your kindness also needs boundaries.

Firm boundaries.

Romantic love is precious, platonic love is necessary and self-love is crucial.