only a girl

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stud is a black lesbian identity, similar to butch. it is a role with a history and meaning to certain black lesbians. tomboy, on the other hand, is used to describe some masculine women. specifically masculinity in girls and as a word is linked to childhood most of the time. if butch and tomboy aren’t equal words, then neither are stud and tomboy. i really wish non-black lesbians (esp yt lesbians) would stop speaking about our identities.

also i guess if you are gonna bring up stud at least make it’s connection to black women’s masculinity known. i feel like if you just throw stud out there with no mention of black lesbianism that just risks more appropriation

Oh my god