This is a space for good faith interaction between antishippers, proshippers, and any other shipcourse stance, for any purpose.
Good faith asks, such as these, will be posted:
Discourse or opinions.
Experiences.
Headcanons.
Jokes and memes.
Polls and questions.
Ship talk.
Bad faith asks, such as these, will be deleted:
Bigotry.
Callouts without evidence.
Conversion* attempts.
Slurs or rude language.
*Conversion attempts will be measured by the rudeness toward the opposing perspective, whereas disagreements, having of discourse, or sharing opinions differs in how it simply states your perspective, why you don't align with another perspective, and possibly questions the other perspective to better understand how a being can come to it.
But why interact with beings you disagree with? Well, to practice tolerating beings you disagree with, and not letting that come in-between other reasons you may bond. This practice tends to be of most help in the workplace, but it could equally help in other facets of life.
You may request me to have input on your ask, but be aware that I may disagree with you. My stances include:
Additionally, the blog is ran by an aplatonic, aromantic, neurodivergent, transgender, young adult. I enjoy arts, craft, dark media, music, symbolism, and writing. I have been a victim to circumstances I will not detail, meaning any asks calling me anything without substantial criticism, will be blocked.
Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
✓ Live Streaming✓ Interactive Chat✓ Private Shows✓ HD Quality
Anya is LIVE right now
FREE
Free to watch • No registration required • HD streaming
There's a sysmed blog called "Radnormal" trying to play respectability politics and make "radnormal" an identity, and all I can think when I see it is how it reminds me of conservatives calling themselves "super straights."
Like, the word just feels like it should be a synonym.
There is something I find especially hilarious about someone looking at the word "radqueer" and saying, "you know what the problem with this is? The QUEER part! Let's take out the queer and be radnormal!"
I'm sorry, but was your solution to radqueer discourse seriously to conversion therapy the word radqueer and make the queer normal?
Irradiatequeer is made to opposes radqueer AND radnormal, being against radicalism on either side.
Irradiatequeer opposes the "radicalism" of either, by being irradiate. "Irradiate" is meant to act as a stand-in for words such as "unradical" or "non-radical", and be separate enough from "radical" to make a shortening of the blankqueer not sound similar to either.
Irradiatequeer opposes the pressure to be "normal", especially as a replacement for the word "queer", despite the double meaning of "queer" including "weird".
This label is made in unity of all sides, wanting what's best for everyone involved, though still holds the knowledge that either side of radicalism can become dangerous due to the bias, the disconnect. This label is pro-recovery, believing that even the "best" beings mess up and deserve forgiveness and a chance.
Without the blur:
Iraqueer stances:
Iraqueer does not choose one shipcourse stance over the other, only taking the all-around stances of "anti-censorship" and "anti-harassment".
Iraqueer is AGAINST...
Abuse and assault, in all of its forms. Domestic, emotional, financial, physical, sexual, verbal, etc. Or toward certain demographics such as animals, children, deceased, disabled, elderly, POC, queer, women, transgender, etc.
Bigotry and discrimination, in all of its forms. Including "jokes" that target "majority" groups due to the common target of something such as misandry hurting a lot of minority men before it touches abled, cisgender, perisex, straight, white, etc men.
Capitalism, fascism and nazism (spot the difference).
"Consensual" abuse or incest.
Generative AI.
Use of dogwhistles such as CP or MMP (instead of CSA/EM), transman/transwoman (without the space), etc.
Weaponising being a minority, being in recovery or similar statuses to force anybeing to forgive, justify, or to otherwise leverage a point.
Iraqueer is CRITICAL of...
Language being greatly removed from its original definition. Such as pick me, transabled, transracial, woke and more.
Use of controversial language, such as slurs. Understanding why that language may be pertinent to some beings while being harmful to other beings, without that illegitimising either.
Iraqueer is forever curious about beings as individuals, not just what beliefs they gravitate to most. Iraqueers do not "compromise" to interact with others, just extend their knowledge and choose if different beings are nice to be in their immediate circle.
Iraqueer maintains a base level of respect for everybeing. Consequences and retaliation are not looked down on, though it is vital to keep in mind how you are coming off, even in the heat of the moment. Saying something such as slurs because you're angry is not ok!
Iraqueer SUPPORTS...
Anything consensual between two or more beings, kink-or-sex-wise, with boundaries and negotiation as needed.
Identifying, or expressing yourself in whatever way you want.
Informed, risk-aware consent about decisions, primarily for life altering decisions such as sex, surgery or tattoos, for example.
Lesbian Gay Bi Trans Queer plus (LGBTQ+), Labels Identities and Other Minorities (LIOM), Marginalised Orientations Gender Alignments and Intersex (MOGAI), Non-Conventional Ways Of Being (NCWOB), Queer Alignments and Intersex (QAI), etc.
Recovering in whatever way is possible, no matter how long it takes.
Xenogenders, neopronouns, subtlidens/good faith identities, otherkin/etc, microlabels and more.
Iraqueer wishes to politely criticise those willing to change, and eat the fascists who can never change.
