what do you mean you don’t dream about me every night

A man just walked past me and said “excuse me, but you look very nice tonight darlin” I said thank you and he said you’re welcome and walked off. And that is how you compliment a woman without harassing them

No, that is still unsolicited, and thus, harassment. No amount of “darlins” is gonna make me not want to punch your ass for coming on to me without provocation.

the comic is killing me

omfg hahaha

mental health status: need to look at the sea for hours and stay quiet

due to not wanting to, i will not. thanks.

my mom says she’s not a hugger. but when i put my arms around her on a gloomy day or after bad news she’s the last to let go. my dad says he doesn’t want gifts on his birthday, but i see the way his face lights up when i get him a card with a nice message and a box full of chocolate anyway. he’s just a kid inside, still. it makes him giddy. my brother never says i love you. but when i tell him “i just need to finish the dishes before i vacuum!” he wordlessly goes to vacuum the entire house before i can, and if he sees me struggle with a wrapper or a jar or a bottle he mutters ‘c’mere’ and opens it for me without even sparing me a glance. the thing is, people love you quietly, and you love them quietly, and the air is buzzing with tiny but grand gestures & once you look for them, you find them everywhere. i think that’s really beautiful.

oh to be a little cat and sit in a windowsill

all of the answers are within you. you know this as you walk through your days in a hurry, covered in the stress or drama or distractions. shake them off like a heavy coat. allow yourself a moment to be just here. to go into yourself bit by bit and listen. no need to search. only to be still and open.