Can we please fucking acknowledge that some of the things spoken about when you say "cis people getting gender affirming care" are actually coercive 'normalizing' treatments done on intersex people?
An intersex boy with boobs being pressured by everyone around him to get them reduced is not fucking gender-affirming. An intersex child put on puberty blockers to prevent an "incorrect" puberty is not fucking gender-affirming. An intersex girl being forced into dilations and feminising hormones is not fucking gender-affirming.
These treatments are imposed on intersex kids by their parents, doctors, and motivated by intersexism they experience from their peers. These decisions are made under the belief that intersexuality is a disorder. According to proper medical protocols, I should have been put on blockers and subjected to 'corrective' genital surgery. This wouldn't have been gender-affirming because I'm literally fucking fine with my body. It's everyone else that has issues with it.
Yes, there are examples of cis people getting gender-affirming care. But PLEASE leave intersex people's medical abuse OUT of that fucking point. If a "gender-affirming treatment for a cis person" is
Being done on a child or teenager
Is 'treating' an 'abnormal variance' in natal sex traits / "a sex disorder"
That's more likely than not; coercive and is an example of intersexist medical abuse. Stop fucking using intersex pain to prop up perisex trans people. Give a shit about us, actually.