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Saturday night was Fantastic ❕❕ It’s extremely rare for me to wear Pink 🎀 but with this being a special occasion, I took the risk. This very cute plastic number was gifted to me many years ago, by the late Cheapboy, aka Jenny. It’s a true challenge finding Fetish wear that looks the part, and is also comfortable to move around on a dance floor in for a few hours. Pinkie here was a total success. Thank you to @eagle_leather for an amazing night - and wishing you a Happy 25th Anniversary 🎊 #pink #howtoma101 #dress #anniversary #red #party #fantastictheparty #fantastic #club80 #eagleleather #abdl #fetishevent #fetishlife #diaryofadominatrix #mistressalex (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/B5jB4hBASQ5/?igshid=1gd54m1s1wwjc

This week is done for me. I’m taking bookings for next week, before I fly to Adelaide the following. Contact me sooner rather than later. #blog #howtoma101 #boots #latex #saturday #fetishlife #dungeon #mistress #mistressalex #diaryofadominatrix #dominatrix (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/B4oHcUogPqY/?igshid=11i7mexjkiwzc

Looking forward to a day of fun tomorrow at Fetish House ⛓ #blog #howtoma101 #woman #mistress #mistressalex #dominatrix #fetishhouse #diaryofadominatrix #leather #latex #boots #platformboots #black #melbournebdsm #lingerie https://www.instagram.com/p/B3B7lUfAuJC/?igshid=1xn52o8dm91q1

A nice addition to my book collection, thanks to @hareshyenas book stall 📚 at @ozkinkfest_au #book #howtoma101 #bdsmreads #ozkinkfest2019 #books #bookcollection #venusinfurs #biancaemmanuelle #sm #adult #adultart #adultbooks #haresnhyenas #adultbookstore https://www.instagram.com/p/B2vjfScAeSC/?igshid=mau3vw3dr8o7

Thanks @ozkinkfest_au for another amazing day of socialising, performances, and of course, shopping 🛍 Escort and bag carrier @steve_vicia took this shot on our way in. I’ve got my heels on, with my newest @libidex leotard from @eagle_leather 🖤 #shopping #howtoma101 #stockings #heels #legs #ozkinkfest #leotard #latex #dominatrix #professional #prodomme #mistress #mistressalex #melbourne #diaryofadominatrix #fetishlife (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/B2aqqFegkJ0/?igshid=1ra3ks6coeo9s

Adelaide always treats me well. I found this gorgeous Black Tourmaline during a morning trip to the market. Thanks @mistressgabrielle for your Crystal guidance. 🖤 #shopping #howtoma101 #crystals #jewelry #jewellery #protection #teamblack #earrings #stone #diaryofadominatrix #mistressjewelry #mistressalex (at Adelaide, South Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/B2DEPt2g4eo/?igshid=1439zwydoqpdw

Nipple Clamp Art 🥢 I’ll have this fine collection with me today at @collingwood_confidential #art #howtoma101 #nippleclamps #clamps #pain #fetishlife #fetishart #mistressalex #alexvicia #dominatrix #mistress #yesmistress #dungeon #melbournemistress https://www.instagram.com/p/B1_ERwhg9Ce/?igshid=1ex7hfrnbgdyb

Celebrating the first day of Spring with this beautiful new handbag I received today. It will be a fine accessory to brighten my black wardrobe... I love it 🥰 #spring #howtoma101 #handbag #flowers #gifts #diaryofadominatrix (at Adelaide, South Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/B13pfttAdyC/?igshid=1pb9aneaznh6h

I quite like the darkness of @mr_sin_artwork .... so I asked him to make a custom piece for me, based on one of my photos, with a choice of colour, aside red and black. I received the file quick smart with 2 options to pick from. 🖤🧡🖤 Thank you @mr_sin_artwork #art #howtoma101 #collar #dominatrix #slavecollar #leather #customart #commission #artshare #diaryofadominatrix #thankyou #tuesday https://www.instagram.com/p/B1pXeN4gRjA/?igshid=5su7v9wucqir

Did someone say Fetish Friday? Have an awesome day everyone 🖤 #photo #howtoma101 #boots #stockings #legs #latex #hats #hat #cane #bdsmcane #melbournebdsm #dominatrix #diaryofadominatrix #yesmistress #fetishist #photoshoot #friday #fetishfriday #mistressalex (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/B07HDHUgCPp/?igshid=1mfe0ap7l96q3

Remember the photos during my trip to Tasmania? Nor do I ... there are just too many pictures in the world to remember these days ‼️ Anyways .... I bought a 6 pack of metal, reusable straws at the Salamanca Market. So I’m trying to be a good person and do the right thing. Each time I leave the house I have a reusable straw in my handbag 👜 and I’m all proud of myself saying 😃 ‘no straw please’ when I am dining out 😇👈🏻 good girl ✅ I arrived home last night, and alas, there are now only 5 reusable straws in my draws. I left one in the cup at the cafe 🤦🏻‍♀️ 👈🏻 silly girl ❌ Hopefully they will at least throw it to recycle ♻️ Actually, now there are possibly only 4 straws, because I have no idea where number 5 is 🙄 But on a more positive note 🎵 there are reusable straws all over the net, and in stores, so I can really stock up and never run out. I’m guessing that I’ll go through more steel straws in the next year, than I have in a lifetime, but I’m guessing the recycling benefits will still make me a 😇👈🏻 good girl ✅ #sunday #metal #steel #straw #glass #water #blog #glassofwater #yes (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/B0uF5t1AjDj/?igshid=1k09p1dxsmfmx

🗜I love receiving Nipple Clamp requests 🖤 . . . . #leather #mistress #clamps #nippleclamps #mistressalex #dominatrix #dungeon #humpday #happy (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/B0jwlTXgU8W/?igshid=1cb0br4sf1jel

3rd shift today at Fetish House in Oakleigh and getting to know my way around the halls and the dungeon walls. This week I loaded up my new DeWalt Tool Trolley with latex body bags, hoods, E-stim unit, strap on toys, and other assorted implements -some for pleasure, and others for pain. I’ll see you there‼️ #red #latex #mistress #bodybag #fetishlife #latexbodybag #inflatables #fetishhouse #melbourne #melbournedominatrix #melbournemistress #mistressalex #howtoma101 #dungeon #mistressalex (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/B0O_XQvgQ7Q/?igshid=1lxxkatxqu5ex

That time of the month‼️ You guessed it 😻 Nails 💅🏼 Prepping for my second shift at Fetish House tomorrow. #nails #howtoma101 #fingers #red #fingernails #polish #rednails #fetishhouse #prodommelife #mistress (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bzo2WoTgOSk/?igshid=1pgz974x23mwa

Playing around with art apps on Fetish Friday 😈 Have an awesome day everyone 🖤 #art #howtoma101 #artapp #boots #latex #dominatrix #fetishfriday #footfetishnation #gloves #mistress #mistressalex #melbourne #melbournedominatrix #melbournebdsm #adult #legs #fetishboots (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/BzOs-Rog8uc/?igshid=jr465fe4z5hl

I’ve been saving these ones for a special occasion! These gorgeous pieces are from @the_temple_22 auction a few weeks back. Some of Mistress Ruebens personal collection are now a much adored addition to my own 💫 thanks to a long time client who is dedicated to the cause 😁 #leather #mistresslife #mistress #yesmistress #yes #professionaldominatrix #dominatrix #mistress #fetishlife #bondagelifestyle #corporalpunishment #cane #strap #tawse #adult #temple22 #leatherstrap #slavelife https://www.instagram.com/p/BzHJPbvgNgn/?igshid=a8nhgsxdfx8s

This is worth looking into if you are in need of some pain, deprivation, maybe a little ... humiliation, pain.... what about some corporal punishment? ... maybe some pain? 🧛‍♀️ #cross #howtoma101 #mistress #dungeon #melbournebdsm #kink #adult #mistresslife #mybodymychoice #bondage #slavetraining #mistressalex (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/By44AqMgCtl/?igshid=wyogqwces74x